I have a 16 year old, out of control son. No One can help him. I need serious help please?

My son is now 16. He was diagnosed with /adhd and medicated for years. Now he is out of control. Violent, aggressive, hates the world, and treats everyone like crap. Has no respect and feels the world owes him. Now he is smoking dope, drinking, and not schooling. He has been expelled AGAIN, from another school. He went to school a month ago, on drugs, went nuts, punched a glass door and sliced his arm open. Cut nerves %26amp; tendons. Had microsurgery. Bled alot. Now doesnt look after his arm. Now, because no feeling in the fingers, he burns them with a cigarette lighter. A finger is badly infected, and may have to be removed.


He has seen the best head doctors in this country. The professionals know he is dangerous. No one will do anything about it. He gets away with everything. He hates his father, and expects everyone to do everything for him. I have tried. All of us have. I need some serios advice, because authorities do nothing %26amp; I cant comit him. Please help?I have a 16 year old, out of control son. No One can help him. I need serious help please?
when somebody poses a serious danger to themselves or others, there is no other option apart from them to be placed in the appropriate care. I think you need to keep a record of this, with the police, and with yourself day to day generally. Write it all down, show the professionals you speak of the evidence to make your worries clear. You really do need help and fast.








Whatever happens, I think you need some serious moral support and a break from the constant anxiety that you're in, try to be kind to yourself.I have a 16 year old, out of control son. No One can help him. I need serious help please?
have you written to any talk shows? it may sound corny and un real but they usually have the power to place the children in the facilities that the parents dont have access to.just dont give up on him.

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dont blame yourself.sometimes no matter how much we love them and try to raise them right,sometimes things turn out bad any way.

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If he is doing harm to himself, you might be able to have him hospitalized. Sounds like he might have a chemical imbalance. It could take 6 months or longer for him to accept the help. You are only legally responsible until he is 18 yrs of age. Sounds like reactive attachment disorder. If you have a Mental Health Center in your area, seek some help for both of you....you may need it just for validation.
Contact Dr. Phil
Give him notations(rules)put your foot down and explain how you feel about this andtell him how this can affect him in life.
i tend to agree with the Military or Reform school... send him to military school, and they will make sure he gets his medicine, and he is disciplined...
Military school or reform school
Send him off to the army,if the police won't lock him up,before he starts hurting or killing people and gets death row.He does need help,so good luck.
I don't know if it will help your case but take a look at this web site it may offer you some help and ideas.


http://www.adhdnews.com/
Actually you can commit him and that would be the best thing. There is only so much you can do ';After the fact'; a lot of this is the result of years of problems and you can't expect to be able to fix it now just because you want to.
Sorry to hear that!


Poor boy!


I can not help!
Military.
Oh my gosh. I am soooo sorry. I went thru this when my son was 15. Same exact thing. No one would help me. I checked into counseling, military school, you name it, I called everyone. I didn't know what to do. I had a younger child in my home. I was married - he hated my new husband. He would tell my daughter that when she woke up, she'd find him in a pool of blood. He also told her that we (my husband and I) had to sleep sometime. Like he was going to kill us. My ex (his dad) was no help either. I finally had to have him arrested. They did it because of some of the stuff he wrote. Anyhow, they kept him in jail for 1 nite. Then we had court the next day and my ex showed up to look like he was Mr. Wonderful. The judge ended up making him take my son home with him. My son is now 21 and doing good. Only because of tough love. He knows I had to do what I had to do. I really wish you luck. I feel so bad for you.
i am sorry you are going throught this but i seriously think the only answer is for him to be committed and proffessional help while in there, you are not going to be able to do this alone and i think after you will need a lot of counceling yourself good luck
maybe you should try counselling go with him, has he been through a tough time and not been able to cope with it or talk to you about.
I AM REALLY SAYING THIS FROM EXPERIENCE OF KIDS BUT U CAN CONTROL HIM BY GIVING HIM SUCH LOVE THAT HE BREAKS DOWN.LOVE IS THE ONLY THING WHICH CAN HELP U AND HIM.LOVE HIM TO SUCH EXTENT THAT HE RECOGNIZES HIMSELF IN THE MIRROR.


HE DRINKS GET UR SELF A GLASS AND HAVE A BEER WITH HIM .IF HE SMOKES U TRY TO SMOKE WITH HIM.IT WILL HELP HIM KNOW WHATS RIGHT AND WRONG .HE KNOW THAT THE WORLD DOESN'T REVOLVE AROUND HIM BUT REVOLVES AROUND ITSELF.

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Trying to delete lime wire, but it's no where in the control panel any help woul be helpful thanks?

Go into computer, select your hard drive, select program files, and then look for the limewire folder. Delete it.Trying to delete lime wire, but it's no where in the control panel any help woul be helpful thanks?
Start %26gt; All Programs





Find it and click to uninstall.

My computers sound doent work. When i go to volume control, it says i have no sound mixer. how do i get one?

everything is hooked up fine, but the sound just stopped working, and i cant even get into volume control.My computers sound doent work. When i go to volume control, it says i have no sound mixer. how do i get one?
You will have to first check if you have sound capabilities or not in your system.





If you have windows operating system, right click on My Computer and select Manage.





On the next window that opens up, single click on Device Manager in left pane.





Now see in the right pane, if there is any unkown device listed with a question mark or any sound controller. please check it first and then tell me.

Real answers please i cant find this no where and its for my essay. when did the united states border control?

start and what it its history. i dont need a website i know there website is www.usbc.org so dont give me that plz helpReal answers please i cant find this no where and its for my essay. when did the united states border control?
The United States Border Patrol (USBP), a Federal police force, is the mobile uniformed law enforcement arm of U.S. Customs and Border Protection (CBP), a bureau of the Department of Homeland Security.





Mounted watchmen of the U.S. Immigration Service patrolled the border in an effort to prevent illegal crossings as early as 1904, but their efforts were irregular and undertaken only when resources permitted. The inspectors, usually called Mounted Guards, operated out of El Paso, Texas. Though they never totaled more than seventy-five, they patrolled as far west as California trying to restrict the flow of illegal Chinese immigration.





The Origins of the Border Patrol


Mounted watchmen of the U.S. Immigration Service patrolled the border in an effort to prevent illegal crossings as early as 1904, but their efforts were irregular and undertaken only when resources permitted. The inspectors, usually called Mounted Guards, operated out of El Paso, Texas. Though they never totaled more than seventy-five, they patrolled as far west as California trying to restrict the flow of illegal Chinese immigration.Real answers please i cant find this no where and its for my essay. when did the united states border control?
It was to prevent the mexican infiltration some time in 1950


Put mexican and 1950 and search

Does anyone no how mind control works?

Can some one read your mind or try to control your thoughts? What about a miind meld? or how about telepathy can Satans Secret Society comunicate through there mind. Could they cheat at cards. Maybe it is just a Demon doing the talking A? Is that some of the deep secrets of Satan? Do you ever get thoughts in your head over and over and over again for no aparant reason.Does anyone no how mind control works?
The School systems control thoughts everyday. So does religion and politics.





Think about it. Don't we brain wash I children into believing the things taught in school? Don't we more or less brainwash them in to believing or not believing in god? I am a teacher and a spiritual being. But it is what we do. It is an acceptable form.Does anyone no how mind control works?
Lemmings seem to catch on...
it's not like that at all.. your definition is much more like a hollywood definition...





mind control is like scientology.... brainwashing, stuff like that.








no one can read minds without looking at the person.(body/facial language)
i dont know if wishfulthinking is the works of satan cause i get those alot
I have been researching CIA mind-control experiments, as well as programs that continue to the current day.


Mind control is real. V2K or voice-to-skull technology exists, and there is definitely a program being run with an 'Antichrist' theme.


It's not as simple as anybody makes it out to be.


Demons (spirits) are the explanation that a medieval mind produced for an encounter with extra-dimensional entities.


And satan? A figure from history: Nergal posing as Ashur, who was eventually exposed and named Al Shaitani - 'the deceiver'.


Here's a site with how to learn mind-control packages on it:


http://ziku.wordpress.com/evolve/





I hope I've helped.
Its called schizophrenia. There are medications for it

Can someone please tell MSNBC that BUSH is no longer the President, Obama and Democrats are in control? Thanks?

Aww, have a heart, man. What else can they do? If they start holding the Dems responsible for their own stink, MSNBC will be out of business!


Without Bush bashing, they got nothing.





Remember back when journalists at least pretended to be unbiased?





EDIT- @Ruth- You spelled ';doosh'; wrong. But thanks for the intelligent discourse. Public school product, huh?Can someone please tell MSNBC that BUSH is no longer the President, Obama and Democrats are in control? Thanks?
It's a time honored tradition. Fox %26amp; AM radio blamed Clinton for everything that was bad during all eight Bush years.


Sometimes they even blamed Carter!Can someone please tell MSNBC that BUSH is no longer the President, Obama and Democrats are in control? Thanks?
No actions occurs independent of another action. There are causes and effects. Some policy decisions did occur during the Bush administration that still affect us.
No, don't tell them. It's fun to watch Olbermann %26amp; Co. sink deeper and deeper into the abyss while they misread the American public
Why should they? From their prospective, old news beats the heck out of current events in these United States.
Don't watch MSNBC, theirs polls will eventually show it and it will hurt them.
As much as you would like to forget this embarrassing REPUBLICAN, the damage he did will be with us for some time to come.
Sir that would sure spoil all their fun! They refuse to believe what is true
The effect takes a while to wear off.


I'll give it 6 months before most of it is gone.
we will never let u forget what that clown did to this country u love so much.

No periods on birth control shot?

should i get off the birth control shot because i dont have periods at all? well i know some girls would be sooo excited not to have periods but what if something happens and i get pregnant? i wont know for the longest time because i wont have any periods.. and shouldnt you be flushing all that stuff out of your body during your period? i dont know what i should do...No periods on birth control shot?
The Depo shot tricks your body into thinking it's pregnant. That stops the period process. Most women don't have a period on this shot and don't miss it. The only problem I have seen with our patients is weight gain. Be thankful and don't worry about not having your period.No periods on birth control shot?
i havent gotten mine in almost a year cause im on the lupron depot shot. i ask myself that same question

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