Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Unprotected sex No birth control or Condoms...What are my chances?

I have been having unprotected sex with no birth control, condoms, or any other type of contraceptive with ';going inside of me'; with the same guy for about 5 years now. We haven't gone to the doctor yet as we are not planning a baby but if it happened we would be very excited and could definitely handle the situation emotionally and financially, but we just haven't set it in stone enough to go to the doctors. Shouldn't I have at least gotten pregnant once? We have sex about 3-4 times a month and it was pretty much every 2-3 days, 5 years ago. I am pretty sure I have Endometriosis, but was just wondering what everyone else thought. Somethings wrong with me right? Shouldn't SOMETHING have happened by now? Please only serious answers. Thanks in advance.Unprotected sex No birth control or Condoms...What are my chances?
Sound like u should have been pregnant by now. Seems like its bothering now than b4. So I do think both should do test and figure out if there is something wrong with you or him.Unprotected sex No birth control or Condoms...What are my chances?
The definition of infertility is trying 12 months to get pregnant without a resulting viable pregnancy. If you two were trying (for example, you were timing your ovulation so that you had sex when you were most likely to get pregnant), I would definitely think you fall under the definition of ';infertile.'; But since you weren't trying, I really don't think you could consider this a major concern. It is surprising that you haven't gotten pregnant, but I think you should only begin to worry when you attempt to get pregnant. I've always heard that once your mind is getting set on pregnancy, it often times happens. Hope that helps!
I've been of the understanding that a woman in her 20's who is actively trying to conceive has about a 25% chance of getting pregnant every month. Since you're not actively trying, you're not intentionally having sex around your time of ovulation.





You can start charting your ovulation by taking your basal temperature every morning.





Do you get your period regularly? Are you very over or under weight? Is he? Do either of you drink a lot? All of these can have effects on fertility.
Something could be wrong, but not necessarily. However, if it is something, it could be him too! Don't pin it on yourself! I am sorry darling. But you could have nothing wrong, and it just isn't happening. I actually knew a girl who was the same way (except she was way more promiscuous and slept with more people than just one) and she just now got pregnant after at least 6 years of this. Still, I am sure it would put you at rest if you went to the doctor and got tested. Best wishes!
Does he release the sperm inside or near your vagina? If he does then you should get pregnant, if not see a doctor or something.

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