Friday, May 14, 2010

I have a 16 year old, out of control son. No One can help him. I need serious help please?

My son is now 16. He was diagnosed with /adhd and medicated for years. Now he is out of control. Violent, aggressive, hates the world, and treats everyone like crap. Has no respect and feels the world owes him. Now he is smoking dope, drinking, and not schooling. He has been expelled AGAIN, from another school. He went to school a month ago, on drugs, went nuts, punched a glass door and sliced his arm open. Cut nerves %26amp; tendons. Had microsurgery. Bled alot. Now doesnt look after his arm. Now, because no feeling in the fingers, he burns them with a cigarette lighter. A finger is badly infected, and may have to be removed.


He has seen the best head doctors in this country. The professionals know he is dangerous. No one will do anything about it. He gets away with everything. He hates his father, and expects everyone to do everything for him. I have tried. All of us have. I need some serios advice, because authorities do nothing %26amp; I cant comit him. Please help?I have a 16 year old, out of control son. No One can help him. I need serious help please?
when somebody poses a serious danger to themselves or others, there is no other option apart from them to be placed in the appropriate care. I think you need to keep a record of this, with the police, and with yourself day to day generally. Write it all down, show the professionals you speak of the evidence to make your worries clear. You really do need help and fast.








Whatever happens, I think you need some serious moral support and a break from the constant anxiety that you're in, try to be kind to yourself.I have a 16 year old, out of control son. No One can help him. I need serious help please?
have you written to any talk shows? it may sound corny and un real but they usually have the power to place the children in the facilities that the parents dont have access to.just dont give up on him.

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dont blame yourself.sometimes no matter how much we love them and try to raise them right,sometimes things turn out bad any way.

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If he is doing harm to himself, you might be able to have him hospitalized. Sounds like he might have a chemical imbalance. It could take 6 months or longer for him to accept the help. You are only legally responsible until he is 18 yrs of age. Sounds like reactive attachment disorder. If you have a Mental Health Center in your area, seek some help for both of you....you may need it just for validation.
Contact Dr. Phil
Give him notations(rules)put your foot down and explain how you feel about this andtell him how this can affect him in life.
i tend to agree with the Military or Reform school... send him to military school, and they will make sure he gets his medicine, and he is disciplined...
Military school or reform school
Send him off to the army,if the police won't lock him up,before he starts hurting or killing people and gets death row.He does need help,so good luck.
I don't know if it will help your case but take a look at this web site it may offer you some help and ideas.


http://www.adhdnews.com/
Actually you can commit him and that would be the best thing. There is only so much you can do ';After the fact'; a lot of this is the result of years of problems and you can't expect to be able to fix it now just because you want to.
Sorry to hear that!


Poor boy!


I can not help!
Military.
Oh my gosh. I am soooo sorry. I went thru this when my son was 15. Same exact thing. No one would help me. I checked into counseling, military school, you name it, I called everyone. I didn't know what to do. I had a younger child in my home. I was married - he hated my new husband. He would tell my daughter that when she woke up, she'd find him in a pool of blood. He also told her that we (my husband and I) had to sleep sometime. Like he was going to kill us. My ex (his dad) was no help either. I finally had to have him arrested. They did it because of some of the stuff he wrote. Anyhow, they kept him in jail for 1 nite. Then we had court the next day and my ex showed up to look like he was Mr. Wonderful. The judge ended up making him take my son home with him. My son is now 21 and doing good. Only because of tough love. He knows I had to do what I had to do. I really wish you luck. I feel so bad for you.
i am sorry you are going throught this but i seriously think the only answer is for him to be committed and proffessional help while in there, you are not going to be able to do this alone and i think after you will need a lot of counceling yourself good luck
maybe you should try counselling go with him, has he been through a tough time and not been able to cope with it or talk to you about.
I AM REALLY SAYING THIS FROM EXPERIENCE OF KIDS BUT U CAN CONTROL HIM BY GIVING HIM SUCH LOVE THAT HE BREAKS DOWN.LOVE IS THE ONLY THING WHICH CAN HELP U AND HIM.LOVE HIM TO SUCH EXTENT THAT HE RECOGNIZES HIMSELF IN THE MIRROR.


HE DRINKS GET UR SELF A GLASS AND HAVE A BEER WITH HIM .IF HE SMOKES U TRY TO SMOKE WITH HIM.IT WILL HELP HIM KNOW WHATS RIGHT AND WRONG .HE KNOW THAT THE WORLD DOESN'T REVOLVE AROUND HIM BUT REVOLVES AROUND ITSELF.
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    Real answers please i cant find this no where and its for my essay. when did the united states border control?

    start and what it its history. i dont need a website i know there website is www.usbc.org so dont give me that plz helpReal answers please i cant find this no where and its for my essay. when did the united states border control?
    The United States Border Patrol (USBP), a Federal police force, is the mobile uniformed law enforcement arm of U.S. Customs and Border Protection (CBP), a bureau of the Department of Homeland Security.





    Mounted watchmen of the U.S. Immigration Service patrolled the border in an effort to prevent illegal crossings as early as 1904, but their efforts were irregular and undertaken only when resources permitted. The inspectors, usually called Mounted Guards, operated out of El Paso, Texas. Though they never totaled more than seventy-five, they patrolled as far west as California trying to restrict the flow of illegal Chinese immigration.





    The Origins of the Border Patrol


    Mounted watchmen of the U.S. Immigration Service patrolled the border in an effort to prevent illegal crossings as early as 1904, but their efforts were irregular and undertaken only when resources permitted. The inspectors, usually called Mounted Guards, operated out of El Paso, Texas. Though they never totaled more than seventy-five, they patrolled as far west as California trying to restrict the flow of illegal Chinese immigration.Real answers please i cant find this no where and its for my essay. when did the united states border control?
    It was to prevent the mexican infiltration some time in 1950


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    Does anyone no how mind control works?

    Can some one read your mind or try to control your thoughts? What about a miind meld? or how about telepathy can Satans Secret Society comunicate through there mind. Could they cheat at cards. Maybe it is just a Demon doing the talking A? Is that some of the deep secrets of Satan? Do you ever get thoughts in your head over and over and over again for no aparant reason.Does anyone no how mind control works?
    The School systems control thoughts everyday. So does religion and politics.





    Think about it. Don't we brain wash I children into believing the things taught in school? Don't we more or less brainwash them in to believing or not believing in god? I am a teacher and a spiritual being. But it is what we do. It is an acceptable form.Does anyone no how mind control works?
    Lemmings seem to catch on...
    it's not like that at all.. your definition is much more like a hollywood definition...





    mind control is like scientology.... brainwashing, stuff like that.








    no one can read minds without looking at the person.(body/facial language)
    i dont know if wishfulthinking is the works of satan cause i get those alot
    I have been researching CIA mind-control experiments, as well as programs that continue to the current day.


    Mind control is real. V2K or voice-to-skull technology exists, and there is definitely a program being run with an 'Antichrist' theme.


    It's not as simple as anybody makes it out to be.


    Demons (spirits) are the explanation that a medieval mind produced for an encounter with extra-dimensional entities.


    And satan? A figure from history: Nergal posing as Ashur, who was eventually exposed and named Al Shaitani - 'the deceiver'.


    Here's a site with how to learn mind-control packages on it:


    http://ziku.wordpress.com/evolve/





    I hope I've helped.
    Its called schizophrenia. There are medications for it

    Can someone please tell MSNBC that BUSH is no longer the President, Obama and Democrats are in control? Thanks?

    Aww, have a heart, man. What else can they do? If they start holding the Dems responsible for their own stink, MSNBC will be out of business!


    Without Bush bashing, they got nothing.





    Remember back when journalists at least pretended to be unbiased?





    EDIT- @Ruth- You spelled ';doosh'; wrong. But thanks for the intelligent discourse. Public school product, huh?Can someone please tell MSNBC that BUSH is no longer the President, Obama and Democrats are in control? Thanks?
    It's a time honored tradition. Fox %26amp; AM radio blamed Clinton for everything that was bad during all eight Bush years.


    Sometimes they even blamed Carter!Can someone please tell MSNBC that BUSH is no longer the President, Obama and Democrats are in control? Thanks?
    No actions occurs independent of another action. There are causes and effects. Some policy decisions did occur during the Bush administration that still affect us.
    No, don't tell them. It's fun to watch Olbermann %26amp; Co. sink deeper and deeper into the abyss while they misread the American public
    Why should they? From their prospective, old news beats the heck out of current events in these United States.
    Don't watch MSNBC, theirs polls will eventually show it and it will hurt them.
    As much as you would like to forget this embarrassing REPUBLICAN, the damage he did will be with us for some time to come.
    Sir that would sure spoil all their fun! They refuse to believe what is true
    The effect takes a while to wear off.


    I'll give it 6 months before most of it is gone.
    we will never let u forget what that clown did to this country u love so much.

    No periods on birth control shot?

    should i get off the birth control shot because i dont have periods at all? well i know some girls would be sooo excited not to have periods but what if something happens and i get pregnant? i wont know for the longest time because i wont have any periods.. and shouldnt you be flushing all that stuff out of your body during your period? i dont know what i should do...No periods on birth control shot?
    The Depo shot tricks your body into thinking it's pregnant. That stops the period process. Most women don't have a period on this shot and don't miss it. The only problem I have seen with our patients is weight gain. Be thankful and don't worry about not having your period.No periods on birth control shot?
    i havent gotten mine in almost a year cause im on the lupron depot shot. i ask myself that same question
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  • Does anyone no how mind control works?

    Does anyone no how mind control works?


    Can some one read your mind or try to control your thoughts? What about a miind meld? or how about telepathy can Satans Secret Society comunicate through there mind. Could they cheat at cards. Maybe it is just a Demon doing the talking A? Is that some of the deep secrets of Satan? Do you ever get thoughts in your head over and over and over again for no aparant reason.Does anyone no how mind control works?
    Psychologist Margaret Singer describes in her book Cults in our Midst six conditions which she says would create an atmosphere in which thought reform is possible. Singer states that these conditions involve no need for physical coercion or violence.[5]





    Keep the person unaware of what is going on and how she or he is being changed a step at a time.


    Potential new members are led, step by step, through a behavioral-change program without being aware of the final agenda or full content of the group. The goal may be to make them deployable agents for the leadership, to get them to buy more courses, or get them to make a deeper commitment, depending on the leader's aim and desires.


    Control the person's social and/or physical environment; especially control the person's time.


    Through various methods, newer members are kept busy and led to think about the group and its content during as much of their waking time as possible.


    Systematically create a sense of powerlessness in the person.


    This is accomplished by getting members away from the normal social support group for a period of time and into an environment where the majority of people are already group members.


    The members serve as models of the attitudes and behaviors of the group and speak an in- group language.


    Strip members of their main occupation (quit jobs, drop out of school) or source of income or have them turn over their income (or the majority of) to the group.


    Once stripped of your usual support network, your confidence in your own perception erodes.


    As your sense of powerlessness increases, your good judgment and understanding of the world are diminished. (ordinary view of reality is destabilized)


    As group attacks your previous worldview, it causes you distress and inner confusion; yet you are not allowed to speak about this confusion or object to it -- leadership suppresses questions and counters resistance.


    This process is speeded up if you are kept tired -- the cult will keep you constantly busy.


    Manipulate a system of rewards, punishments and experiences in such a way as to inhibit behavior that reflects the person's former social identity.


    Manipulation of experiences can be accomplished through various methods of trance induction, including leaders using such techniques as paced speaking patterns, guided imagery, chanting, long prayer sessions or lectures, and lengthy meditation sessions.


    Your old beliefs and patterns of behavior are defined as irrelevant or evil. Leadership wants these old patterns eliminated, so the member must suppress them.


    Members get positive feedback for conforming to the group's beliefs and behaviors and negative feedback for old beliefs and behavior.


    Manipulate a system of rewards, punishments, and experiences in order to promote learning the group's ideology or belief system and group-approved behaviors.


    Good behavior, demonstrating an understanding and acceptance of the group's beliefs, and compliance are rewarded while questioning, expressing doubts or criticizing are met with disapproval, redress and possible rejection. If one expresses a question, he or she is made to feel that there is something inherently wrong with them to be questioning.


    The only feedback members get is from the group, they become totally dependent upon the rewards given by those who control the environment.


    Members must learn varying amounts of new information about the beliefs of the group and the behaviors expected by the group.


    The more complicated and filled with contradictions the new system in and the more difficult it is to learn, the more effective the conversion process will be.


    Esteem and affection from peers is very important to new recruits. Approval comes from having the new member's behaviors and thought patterns conform to the models (members). Members' relationship with peers is threatened whenever they fail to learn or display new behaviors. Over time, the easy solution to the insecurity generated by the difficulties of learning the new system is to inhibit any display of doubts -- new recruits simply acquiesce, affirm and act as if they do understand and accept the new ideology.


    Put forth a closed system of logic and an authoritarian structure that permits no feedback and refuses to be modified except by leadership approval or executive order.


    The group has a top-down, pyramid structure. The leaders must have verbal ways of never losing.


    Members are not allowed to question, criticize or complain -- if they do, the leaders allege that the member is defective -- not the organization or the beliefs.


    The individual is always wrong -- the system, its leaders and its belief are always right.


    Conversion or remolding of the individual member happens in a closed system. As members learn to modify their behavior in order to be accepted in this closed system, they change -- begin to speak the language -- which serves to further isolate them from their prior beliefs and behaviors.Does anyone no how mind control works?
    Didn't your psychiatrist tell you to take medication every day?!
    I might as well tell you. I caused you to ask this question. But I will not tell you how. It would cause you to cause me to cause you to do things. That is not efficient.
    Know we don't
    You can indoctrinate people by persuading them to follow a religion, idea, political party and buy snake oil. Great and infamous leaders have done that.





    I don't believe in all that ESP and psychic stuff. First of all people into that know that the basic formulas of any human condition is more love, more money, great health and looks.


    Anyone has a 50/50 chance on gusssing a person's situation. For example if a see a pretty lady about 40, no wedding band but a little wear on her ring finger I can guess she is divorced or her mate is dead. Like they teach in sales techniques a person ususally forgets what you initially said about 15 minutes after a conversation begins so you can throw back something they said or indicated and they don't remember telling you.





    As for other things, ever see a tea reader put milk in the tea?


    Also science has found that nobody who claims to have mind reading powers, abilities to bend spoons, predict the future or internal medical problems of someone can ever do it under controlled conditions. For example if I claim to astro project then 10 scientists could take a book, put it on the roof and watch me sleep. I should be able to float up and tell them the title of the book when I awake. Finally, no seer I have met could ever remotely guess the winning lottery numbers for the upcoming week for me. I can predict there will be a suicide bombing in Khandahar this week, a few soldiers are going to die in Iraq and there will be some robberies in LA this month.





    As for ghosts, demons or aliens, lets get on properly caught, filmed, recorded and documented. I have seen or heard none at all and neither have thousands of others I have known. I am tired of all these fruitless searches that always come close yet produce nothing for results.





    PS - There was a special last year on the appearence of chupa cabrasd in Latin America. Many witnessses were intervewied. At length a piece of Chupa Cabra hair was retrieved in Puerto Rico and sent to Montreal for genetic analysis. After all the hulla ballu it turned out to be canine (dog hair). That selltled that!





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    Michael Kelly
    Christian missionaries are great at it. They go to Tibet to win converts by instilling fear in an imaginary place.

    Looking for a light panel control for a 1985 Camero Berlinetta no luck at many junk yards. Someone please help

    We are on a very limited budget, and we have been told the part will cost about $200. I have checked Apache Auto Wrecking, Franks and a couple other with no luck. Hope someone out there can help us. Thanks for the help!Looking for a light panel control for a 1985 Camero Berlinetta no luck at many junk yards. Someone please help
    Ebay , and dont bid more than you want to spend because you find only one for sale , trust me , next week there will be another, and on and on. ($10 - $25 + shipping) Find out how much shipping is before you bid, If its not listed then ask. If not you may get gouged on the shipping rate.Looking for a light panel control for a 1985 Camero Berlinetta no luck at many junk yards. Someone please help
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    I have bi polar and no medicines can control it! help me!?

    i have bi polar disorder and my wife thinks i hate her and i have crazy thoughts of things like in security and dieing of sum horrable accident... sumtimes i walk around quite and people think im mad at the world but im not.... medicine dont help and im a very smart person.. a honor student in high school and college... but i cant seem to fight this and its really getting to me.. i dont wanna lose her cuz one day she might think this is my personality.. please help!I have bi polar and no medicines can control it! help me!?
    Try educating your wife on Bi-Polar, she might understand your mood swings are caused by an illness and it is not a true reflection of who you are. If that dont work try smoking a joint, that will calm your mood.I have bi polar and no medicines can control it! help me!?
    Hi, you need to call a MD doctor that BIPOLAR is their specialty,


    my husband has the disease and yes it is a disease that you can't control by yourself, you need medicine and therapy and so does your wife with help you and your marriage can make it. Good luck and God bless.
    First of all, don't give up! Talk to a psychiatrist about meds. There's so many options out there. Evetually something will help at least a little bit. Therapy is really important to. A therapist can give you tips on learning to control your moods. Sometimes you won't find the right therapist right away but keep trying, the right therapist is out there. Definitely do some research and show it to your wife. It's important that she knows what you're going through. Keep trying and work as hard as you can at getting better. The medications will definitely not do everything. It takes a lot of work on your part to. But I'm getting better so you can too.
    See a doctor-maybe Lithium will help balance you.
    joe, if have had this desease since i was very young, now i am 56.....i have lost wives and relationships over it.. kepp trying meds and combinations of meds, believe me, it is usualy luck if u find the right medical person to help u and same with the meds....also sounds like u r somewhat paranoid and also maybe a phobia..maybe....your wife needs someone to talk to her about your illness..i find if people show they care about u, it helps more than meds sometimes,, i have not worked a real job since 1989. and i was a professional person.. exercise and diet realy help, but only if u stick with it and make yourself do it!!!!good luck and never give up!!!!hey, i always say, they may do brain transplants someday!!!!
    Try going to see a neurologist. Bi-polar is a disorder that affects the brain and sorry, but neurologists know the brain better than psychiatrists. Also, if you are not on a med that is working, then it might be making you worse. Invite your wife to go with you to the docs so that you can each ask questions and get educated. Good luck and don't give up!
    i have the same disorder and i feel the same way! i get so frustarted at my doctor because they just keep changing med all of the time.i am on lithium and i dont feel like it is doimg any different. i suggest being persistent with ur doc in saying this isnt working!
    Let yourself into a psychiatric hospital so you can get the right medicine...once you do that, you will feel so much better. I almost died because I had the wrong medicine.
    get into some good talk therapy as well as meds they don't work as well when you use one without the other :)
    Pretend that you are a researcher on bi-polar disorder. Track down every book and every scientific article. Note who wrote the bi-polar section in DSM-IV (this may be all you need to do). Take note of all of the author's names. Search the Internet for every major author and find one that is within a day away from where you live. Visit that person or consult by phone and tell that person what you have written here. Be specific about what happened when you were on medication and how you know that you are bi-polar. Sometimes the average psychiatrist can not treat a difficult case.
    There are now hundreds of antidepression medications available. You may want to keep trying to find one that works. Do not stay away from the mental health professionals; bipolar is not something you can handle on your own or expect amateurs to completely help you with. Meds, a therapist %26amp; a support group are smart investments for you.
    The comment you are about to read is not designed to send you over the edge: For someone who claims to have been an honor student, your spelling and grammar reads like elementary school level. What's up with that?





    Now, to the more serious issue. Does your wife know you are bipolar? You make it sound as though she doesn't. What medications have you tried and have you consulted with your doctor to see if he/she can adjust the dosage or try something else? Are you staying on the medication as prescribed?

    What would be cheapest on gas to rent car malibu one week $100 with crusise control or drive my Impala no crui

    It depends a great deal on where you are driving, city, country or a combination. Actually, if the driver is careul, these two cars should be very nearly equal if they have the same size and type of engine. Unless you are driving 1000 miles a week, the fuel savings will be insignificant with regards to repairs, tire wear, insurance coverage, and traffic situations.

    Please help me stop overeating?!?!?!?! i feel like i no longer have control over myself and it sucks :(?

    like today i ate cereal, cucumbers, turkey sandwick, apple, 4 chocolates, and 4 bagles


    :( and this wasnt even the worst day that i've had... :( i'm tired of being fatttPlease help me stop overeating?!?!?!?! i feel like i no longer have control over myself and it sucks :(?
    well, why are you putting all that food into your mouth ?





    No one else is making you do it !





    obvoiusly you dont want to loose weight bad enough.





    FOUR Bagels ? Wow





    buy only healthy food. eat a yogurt or cottage cheese everydayPlease help me stop overeating?!?!?!?! i feel like i no longer have control over myself and it sucks :(?
    do you work out?? that actually helps a lot! drink lots of water as well. and if you ever feel really hungry right after you had a meal eat fruits and veggies (:
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  • Now that the Democrats are in full control the Government, from this point on they have no one else to blame?

    2012 when Obama looses they will blame Bush.Now that the Democrats are in full control the Government, from this point on they have no one else to blame?
    Are you kidding? We're still feeling the effects of democratic administrations from years past.





    It was Clinton whose idiotic threats to turn his AG Janet Reno loose on Wall Street if they didn't make loans available for minority businesses and minorities in general that greatly led up to this current mess, and all these braindead demo/leftists can do is cry ';Bush did it!'; like the good little leftists they are.Now that the Democrats are in full control the Government, from this point on they have no one else to blame?
    You made a statement. What is the question? Instead of being antagonists and obstructionists, why not try a positive approach? Is bashing Democrats the only tenet left in the Republican platform?
    Only if Franken gets seated and Spector turns real





    Right now the republicans remain obstructionists and every thing is their fault.
    if only


    the republican economic Holocaust will take years to fix
    democrats would blame a dog if they could get away with it.
    Sound like the same thing when the table were turned, huh?
    probably george bush
    still mopping up the mess....it's going to take some time.....patience is a virtue.

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    I have bi polar and no medicines can control it! help me!?

    i have bi polar disorder and my wife thinks i hate her and i have crazy thoughts of things like in security and dieing of sum horrable accident... sumtimes i walk around quite and people think im mad at the world but im not.... medicine dont help and im a very smart person.. a honor student in high school and college... but i cant seem to fight this and its really getting to me.. i dont wanna lose her cuz one day she might think this is my personality.. please help!I have bi polar and no medicines can control it! help me!?
    Try educating your wife on Bi-Polar, she might understand your mood swings are caused by an illness and it is not a true reflection of who you are. If that dont work try smoking a joint, that will calm your mood.I have bi polar and no medicines can control it! help me!?
    Hi, you need to call a MD doctor that BIPOLAR is their specialty,


    my husband has the disease and yes it is a disease that you can't control by yourself, you need medicine and therapy and so does your wife with help you and your marriage can make it. Good luck and God bless.
    First of all, don't give up! Talk to a psychiatrist about meds. There's so many options out there. Evetually something will help at least a little bit. Therapy is really important to. A therapist can give you tips on learning to control your moods. Sometimes you won't find the right therapist right away but keep trying, the right therapist is out there. Definitely do some research and show it to your wife. It's important that she knows what you're going through. Keep trying and work as hard as you can at getting better. The medications will definitely not do everything. It takes a lot of work on your part to. But I'm getting better so you can too.
    See a doctor-maybe Lithium will help balance you.
    joe, if have had this desease since i was very young, now i am 56.....i have lost wives and relationships over it.. kepp trying meds and combinations of meds, believe me, it is usualy luck if u find the right medical person to help u and same with the meds....also sounds like u r somewhat paranoid and also maybe a phobia..maybe....your wife needs someone to talk to her about your illness..i find if people show they care about u, it helps more than meds sometimes,, i have not worked a real job since 1989. and i was a professional person.. exercise and diet realy help, but only if u stick with it and make yourself do it!!!!good luck and never give up!!!!hey, i always say, they may do brain transplants someday!!!!
    Try going to see a neurologist. Bi-polar is a disorder that affects the brain and sorry, but neurologists know the brain better than psychiatrists. Also, if you are not on a med that is working, then it might be making you worse. Invite your wife to go with you to the docs so that you can each ask questions and get educated. Good luck and don't give up!
    i have the same disorder and i feel the same way! i get so frustarted at my doctor because they just keep changing med all of the time.i am on lithium and i dont feel like it is doimg any different. i suggest being persistent with ur doc in saying this isnt working!
    Let yourself into a psychiatric hospital so you can get the right medicine...once you do that, you will feel so much better. I almost died because I had the wrong medicine.
    get into some good talk therapy as well as meds they don't work as well when you use one without the other :)
    Pretend that you are a researcher on bi-polar disorder. Track down every book and every scientific article. Note who wrote the bi-polar section in DSM-IV (this may be all you need to do). Take note of all of the author's names. Search the Internet for every major author and find one that is within a day away from where you live. Visit that person or consult by phone and tell that person what you have written here. Be specific about what happened when you were on medication and how you know that you are bi-polar. Sometimes the average psychiatrist can not treat a difficult case.
    There are now hundreds of antidepression medications available. You may want to keep trying to find one that works. Do not stay away from the mental health professionals; bipolar is not something you can handle on your own or expect amateurs to completely help you with. Meds, a therapist %26amp; a support group are smart investments for you.
    The comment you are about to read is not designed to send you over the edge: For someone who claims to have been an honor student, your spelling and grammar reads like elementary school level. What's up with that?





    Now, to the more serious issue. Does your wife know you are bipolar? You make it sound as though she doesn't. What medications have you tried and have you consulted with your doctor to see if he/she can adjust the dosage or try something else? Are you staying on the medication as prescribed?

    What would be cheapest on gas to rent car malibu one week $100 with crusise control or drive my Impala no crui

    It depends a great deal on where you are driving, city, country or a combination. Actually, if the driver is careul, these two cars should be very nearly equal if they have the same size and type of engine. Unless you are driving 1000 miles a week, the fuel savings will be insignificant with regards to repairs, tire wear, insurance coverage, and traffic situations.

    Please help me stop overeating?!?!?!?! i feel like i no longer have control over myself and it sucks :(?

    like today i ate cereal, cucumbers, turkey sandwick, apple, 4 chocolates, and 4 bagles


    :( and this wasnt even the worst day that i've had... :( i'm tired of being fatttPlease help me stop overeating?!?!?!?! i feel like i no longer have control over myself and it sucks :(?
    well, why are you putting all that food into your mouth ?





    No one else is making you do it !





    obvoiusly you dont want to loose weight bad enough.





    FOUR Bagels ? Wow





    buy only healthy food. eat a yogurt or cottage cheese everydayPlease help me stop overeating?!?!?!?! i feel like i no longer have control over myself and it sucks :(?
    do you work out?? that actually helps a lot! drink lots of water as well. and if you ever feel really hungry right after you had a meal eat fruits and veggies (:

    Now that the Democrats are in full control the Government, from this point on they have no one else to blame?

    2012 when Obama looses they will blame Bush.Now that the Democrats are in full control the Government, from this point on they have no one else to blame?
    Are you kidding? We're still feeling the effects of democratic administrations from years past.





    It was Clinton whose idiotic threats to turn his AG Janet Reno loose on Wall Street if they didn't make loans available for minority businesses and minorities in general that greatly led up to this current mess, and all these braindead demo/leftists can do is cry ';Bush did it!'; like the good little leftists they are.Now that the Democrats are in full control the Government, from this point on they have no one else to blame?
    You made a statement. What is the question? Instead of being antagonists and obstructionists, why not try a positive approach? Is bashing Democrats the only tenet left in the Republican platform?
    Only if Franken gets seated and Spector turns real





    Right now the republicans remain obstructionists and every thing is their fault.
    if only


    the republican economic Holocaust will take years to fix
    democrats would blame a dog if they could get away with it.
    Sound like the same thing when the table were turned, huh?
    probably george bush
    still mopping up the mess....it's going to take some time.....patience is a virtue.
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  • Have the dems proven that with complete control they have no clue...?

    what to do? how long for complete change , when it is completely under your control dems?...is time up yet?......hello dems......no one is stopping you......where is the health care?Have the dems proven that with complete control they have no clue...?
    8 years and the GOP did nothing constructive now you want instant results. That is funnyHave the dems proven that with complete control they have no clue...?
    i'm not even a dem but people like you are the reason people call this president a messiah...unrealistic expectations..he's already done way more than the previous president.





    ledbetter law-womens equal pay, mortgage assistance program, CC fee reg.program, stopping torture, iraq withdrawal plan, stimulus-whether you like it or not he addressed the economic crisis, health care might take a little longer than 5 or 6 months..what are you going to say in 3 years, hang tight hater.
    no


    When the economy is in trouble, historically Americans turn to democrats.





    MOST YEARS when Republicans hold the White House, the median income of American households goes down.


    MOST YEARS when Democrats hold the White House, the median income of American households goes up.





    Here we have 48 years of data, from 1959-2006.





    In 20 years of Democratic Presidents: the number of poor people (those at 125% of the poverty line or below) went up in 5 years : 25% of the time.


    In 28 years of Republican Presidents: the number of poor people (those at 125% of the poverty line or below) went up in 15 years: 54% of the time.





    The number of poor people in America is more than twice as likely to go up when Republicans hold the White House as when Democrats hold the White House.





    http://www.librarything.com/topic/59929





    And the numbers show that Democrats are better for the economy than Republicans.


    By Michael Kinsley





    There is no secret about any of this. The figures below are all from the annual Economic Report of the President, and the analysis is primitive. Nevertheless, what these numbers show almost beyond doubt is that Democrats are better at virtually every economic task that is important to Republicans.





    In other words, there are no figures here about income inequality, or percentage of the population with health insurance, or anything like that. This exercise implicitly assumes that lower taxes are always good and higher government spending is always bad. There is nothing here about how clean the air is or how many children are growing up in poverty. The only point is that if you find the Republican mantra of lower taxes and smaller government appealing, and if you care only about how fast the economy is growing, not how that growth is shared, you should vote Democratic. Of course, if you do care about things like economic inequality and children's health, you should vote Democratic as well.








    http://www.slate.com/id/2199810/








    The results are simple: Democratic presidents have consistently higher economic growth and consistently lower unemployment than Republican presidents. If you add in a time lag, you get the same result. If you eliminate the best and worst presidents, you get the same result. If you take a look at other economic indicators, you get the same result. There's just no way around it: Democratic administrations are better for the economy than Republican administrations.








    http://www.washingtonmonthly.com/archive鈥?/a>





    I could keep going but you get the idea. The evidence is staggering.
    You think THEY don't need campaign contributions too?


    They are ALL afraid of upsetting the insurance companies.


    All except the man who got his money from individual people on line.


    And guess where he is sitting.


    That's right, behind the desk where the bill gets signed.








    LISTEN TO ME, I AM A VETERAN, I GET FREE HEALTHCARE NO MATTER WHAT, SO I HAVE NO REASON TO MISLEAD YOU.





    WE COULD GIVE EVERY MAN WOMAN %26amp; CHILD IN AMERICA ZERO DEDUCTIBLE, ZERO CO-PAY HEALTHCARE TODAY FOR WHAT WE ARE NOW SPENDING.





    ALL WE HAVE TO DO IS GET RID OF THE GREEDY INSURANCE COMPANIES THAT SUCK UP 40% OF THE MONEY FOR NOTHING.





    SAY IT WHENEVER YOU CAN:


    --------------------------------------鈥?br>

    SINGLE PAY, OR GO AWAY!


    WE VOTE AGAIN IN TWENTY TEN!


    --------------------------------------鈥?br>




    SEND IT TO YOUR REPRESENTATIVE


    SEND IT TO YOUR SENATORS


    SEND IT TO ANYONE WHO CARES ABOUT THEIR HEALTH


    KEEP SENDING IT TIL THEY GET THE INSURANCE COMPANIES TO STOP RIPPING PEOPLE OFF, CANCLING POLICIES, DENYING COVERAGE AND KILLING PEOPLE!





    YOU LOVE YOUR FAMILY?


    YOU WANT SOMETHING WORTH FIGHTING FOR?


    IT DOESN'T GET ANY MORE IMPORTANT THAN THIS, UNLESS YOU COUNT SHREDDING THE BILL OF RIGHTS LIKE BUSH DID.
    It's coming. You ';repubs'; have left this country in SUCH a bad state, it's going to take some time to fix everything. We haven't had Universal Healthcare in our 200+ year history. You expect Obama to do it in only 4 months?
    Corruption is bipartisan, Obama will prove to be just as guilty as Bush, but not as evil as Cheney.
    They are destroying America at a vast rate. One so called Republicans give a little , a lot gets taken and it is irreversible.
    they are in committee...





    you guys cry when we push something through fast...and cry when we don't...





    we were kind of busy with the economy for a while there...

    While taking the birth control pill, and you have sex when you menstruate, can you get pregnant or no?

    When you have your period you have the LEAST chance of getting pregnant because you have already ovulated and the uterus is now shedding it's inner layer.While taking the birth control pill, and you have sex when you menstruate, can you get pregnant or no?
    When taken as directed, birth control pills fool the body into thinking it is already pregnant, and you do not ovulate. At all. So the answer is no.While taking the birth control pill, and you have sex when you menstruate, can you get pregnant or no?
    You're just as covered as when you're taking the pill, something about the menstruation not being a real period but more a fake one for peace of mind
    if you're on your birth control pills then you have 99.9% coverage against pregnancy. If you're not on the pill then you can get pregnant anytime, even on your period.
    They always say'; it's never safe '; but I would think it would be most unlikely that you would fall pregnant.
    yes you can get pregnant if you had sex while menstruating....

    Do u think spoiled rotten brats with no disipline who control their parents can be possessed by evil spirits?

    My neighbor's 7 year old is possessed by the devil. He starts fires in the house, beats on his mother when he doesn't get his way and has a permanent frown on his face. His diagnosis is Bi-Polar and ADHD, but he's just plain evil.


    What do you think? Could he be helped by exorcism?Do u think spoiled rotten brats with no disipline who control their parents can be possessed by evil spirits?
    Sometimes I think it can seem that way but really I think its that they are still living in the baby stage, when they want something they hoop and holler until they get what they want. I think what is scary though is that certain emotional and social skills may have not continued to grow and expand and yet there ways become more clever as their intelect grows leading to manipulation and schemingDo u think spoiled rotten brats with no disipline who control their parents can be possessed by evil spirits?
    This child's problem is because he was spoiled, and his parent's are now trying to set ground rules which will not work for a child that's used to getting their way. He needs discipline not an exorcism.
    Sounds like a sick child to me. There are medications that could help with his behavior.
    I think spoiled rotten brats with no discipline who control their parents were given license to do so BY their parents. 7-year olds aren't and can't be evil. They do what 1. they see, 2. they are taught, and 3. what they are allowed to get away with. I know someone who has 2 grown sons (although they don't act it, and their father still treats them as babies) and they are helpless, and a bit hopeless, particularly the eldest. It's too late. The damage is done.
    He may perceive the exorcism as punishment and act out even worse. These behaviors are learned, for the most part, shocking as they are, and result from parenting unskilled in dealing with a disturbed child. Firesetting is a cardinal sign of a mental illness. He needs re-evaluation by a good psychiatrist and firm supervision in ensuring he takes his medications.
    If they don't have discipline - then it's the parent's fault! He isn't necessarily possessed! If you look in the Bible at demon possessed people - they harmed themselves!





    His problem is sin - it's not been tamed by discipline - his mother's making a rod for her own back!
    No the problem is they are spoiled and probly never disciplined for doing wrong things or taught to do the right thing.

    Birth control with no period.?

    I just started birth control this month, is it normal to skip a period?Birth control with no period.?
    It's normal for your period to act wierd the first couple of times but it will get back to a regular course unless you are on the shot which will cause you to miss them often.

    I have bi polar and no medicines can control it! help me!?

    i have bi polar disorder and my wife thinks i hate her and i have crazy thoughts of things like in security and dieing of sum horrable accident... sumtimes i walk around quite and people think im mad at the world but im not.... medicine dont help and im a very smart person.. a honor student in high school and college... but i cant seem to fight this and its really getting to me.. i dont wanna lose her cuz one day she might think this is my personality.. please help!I have bi polar and no medicines can control it! help me!?
    Try educating your wife on Bi-Polar, she might understand your mood swings are caused by an illness and it is not a true reflection of who you are. If that dont work try smoking a joint, that will calm your mood.I have bi polar and no medicines can control it! help me!?
    Hi, you need to call a MD doctor that BIPOLAR is their specialty,


    my husband has the disease and yes it is a disease that you can't control by yourself, you need medicine and therapy and so does your wife with help you and your marriage can make it. Good luck and God bless.
    First of all, don't give up! Talk to a psychiatrist about meds. There's so many options out there. Evetually something will help at least a little bit. Therapy is really important to. A therapist can give you tips on learning to control your moods. Sometimes you won't find the right therapist right away but keep trying, the right therapist is out there. Definitely do some research and show it to your wife. It's important that she knows what you're going through. Keep trying and work as hard as you can at getting better. The medications will definitely not do everything. It takes a lot of work on your part to. But I'm getting better so you can too.
    See a doctor-maybe Lithium will help balance you.
    joe, if have had this desease since i was very young, now i am 56.....i have lost wives and relationships over it.. kepp trying meds and combinations of meds, believe me, it is usualy luck if u find the right medical person to help u and same with the meds....also sounds like u r somewhat paranoid and also maybe a phobia..maybe....your wife needs someone to talk to her about your illness..i find if people show they care about u, it helps more than meds sometimes,, i have not worked a real job since 1989. and i was a professional person.. exercise and diet realy help, but only if u stick with it and make yourself do it!!!!good luck and never give up!!!!hey, i always say, they may do brain transplants someday!!!!
    Try going to see a neurologist. Bi-polar is a disorder that affects the brain and sorry, but neurologists know the brain better than psychiatrists. Also, if you are not on a med that is working, then it might be making you worse. Invite your wife to go with you to the docs so that you can each ask questions and get educated. Good luck and don't give up!
    i have the same disorder and i feel the same way! i get so frustarted at my doctor because they just keep changing med all of the time.i am on lithium and i dont feel like it is doimg any different. i suggest being persistent with ur doc in saying this isnt working!
    Let yourself into a psychiatric hospital so you can get the right medicine...once you do that, you will feel so much better. I almost died because I had the wrong medicine.
    get into some good talk therapy as well as meds they don't work as well when you use one without the other :)
    Pretend that you are a researcher on bi-polar disorder. Track down every book and every scientific article. Note who wrote the bi-polar section in DSM-IV (this may be all you need to do). Take note of all of the author's names. Search the Internet for every major author and find one that is within a day away from where you live. Visit that person or consult by phone and tell that person what you have written here. Be specific about what happened when you were on medication and how you know that you are bi-polar. Sometimes the average psychiatrist can not treat a difficult case.
    There are now hundreds of antidepression medications available. You may want to keep trying to find one that works. Do not stay away from the mental health professionals; bipolar is not something you can handle on your own or expect amateurs to completely help you with. Meds, a therapist %26amp; a support group are smart investments for you.
    The comment you are about to read is not designed to send you over the edge: For someone who claims to have been an honor student, your spelling and grammar reads like elementary school level. What's up with that?





    Now, to the more serious issue. Does your wife know you are bipolar? You make it sound as though she doesn't. What medications have you tried and have you consulted with your doctor to see if he/she can adjust the dosage or try something else? Are you staying on the medication as prescribed?

    What would be cheapest on gas to rent car malibu one week $100 with crusise control or drive my Impala no crui

    It depends a great deal on where you are driving, city, country or a combination. Actually, if the driver is careul, these two cars should be very nearly equal if they have the same size and type of engine. Unless you are driving 1000 miles a week, the fuel savings will be insignificant with regards to repairs, tire wear, insurance coverage, and traffic situations.
  • skin blackheads
  • Now that the Democrats are in full control the Government, from this point on they have no one else to blame?

    2012 when Obama looses they will blame Bush.Now that the Democrats are in full control the Government, from this point on they have no one else to blame?
    Are you kidding? We're still feeling the effects of democratic administrations from years past.





    It was Clinton whose idiotic threats to turn his AG Janet Reno loose on Wall Street if they didn't make loans available for minority businesses and minorities in general that greatly led up to this current mess, and all these braindead demo/leftists can do is cry ';Bush did it!'; like the good little leftists they are.Now that the Democrats are in full control the Government, from this point on they have no one else to blame?
    You made a statement. What is the question? Instead of being antagonists and obstructionists, why not try a positive approach? Is bashing Democrats the only tenet left in the Republican platform?
    Only if Franken gets seated and Spector turns real





    Right now the republicans remain obstructionists and every thing is their fault.
    if only


    the republican economic Holocaust will take years to fix
    democrats would blame a dog if they could get away with it.
    Sound like the same thing when the table were turned, huh?
    probably george bush
    still mopping up the mess....it's going to take some time.....patience is a virtue.

    Have the dems proven that with complete control they have no clue...?

    what to do? how long for complete change , when it is completely under your control dems?...is time up yet?......hello dems......no one is stopping you......where is the health care?Have the dems proven that with complete control they have no clue...?
    8 years and the GOP did nothing constructive now you want instant results. That is funnyHave the dems proven that with complete control they have no clue...?
    i'm not even a dem but people like you are the reason people call this president a messiah...unrealistic expectations..he's already done way more than the previous president.





    ledbetter law-womens equal pay, mortgage assistance program, CC fee reg.program, stopping torture, iraq withdrawal plan, stimulus-whether you like it or not he addressed the economic crisis, health care might take a little longer than 5 or 6 months..what are you going to say in 3 years, hang tight hater.
    no


    When the economy is in trouble, historically Americans turn to democrats.





    MOST YEARS when Republicans hold the White House, the median income of American households goes down.


    MOST YEARS when Democrats hold the White House, the median income of American households goes up.





    Here we have 48 years of data, from 1959-2006.





    In 20 years of Democratic Presidents: the number of poor people (those at 125% of the poverty line or below) went up in 5 years : 25% of the time.


    In 28 years of Republican Presidents: the number of poor people (those at 125% of the poverty line or below) went up in 15 years: 54% of the time.





    The number of poor people in America is more than twice as likely to go up when Republicans hold the White House as when Democrats hold the White House.





    http://www.librarything.com/topic/59929





    And the numbers show that Democrats are better for the economy than Republicans.


    By Michael Kinsley





    There is no secret about any of this. The figures below are all from the annual Economic Report of the President, and the analysis is primitive. Nevertheless, what these numbers show almost beyond doubt is that Democrats are better at virtually every economic task that is important to Republicans.





    In other words, there are no figures here about income inequality, or percentage of the population with health insurance, or anything like that. This exercise implicitly assumes that lower taxes are always good and higher government spending is always bad. There is nothing here about how clean the air is or how many children are growing up in poverty. The only point is that if you find the Republican mantra of lower taxes and smaller government appealing, and if you care only about how fast the economy is growing, not how that growth is shared, you should vote Democratic. Of course, if you do care about things like economic inequality and children's health, you should vote Democratic as well.








    http://www.slate.com/id/2199810/








    The results are simple: Democratic presidents have consistently higher economic growth and consistently lower unemployment than Republican presidents. If you add in a time lag, you get the same result. If you eliminate the best and worst presidents, you get the same result. If you take a look at other economic indicators, you get the same result. There's just no way around it: Democratic administrations are better for the economy than Republican administrations.








    http://www.washingtonmonthly.com/archive鈥?/a>





    I could keep going but you get the idea. The evidence is staggering.
    You think THEY don't need campaign contributions too?


    They are ALL afraid of upsetting the insurance companies.


    All except the man who got his money from individual people on line.


    And guess where he is sitting.


    That's right, behind the desk where the bill gets signed.








    LISTEN TO ME, I AM A VETERAN, I GET FREE HEALTHCARE NO MATTER WHAT, SO I HAVE NO REASON TO MISLEAD YOU.





    WE COULD GIVE EVERY MAN WOMAN %26amp; CHILD IN AMERICA ZERO DEDUCTIBLE, ZERO CO-PAY HEALTHCARE TODAY FOR WHAT WE ARE NOW SPENDING.





    ALL WE HAVE TO DO IS GET RID OF THE GREEDY INSURANCE COMPANIES THAT SUCK UP 40% OF THE MONEY FOR NOTHING.





    SAY IT WHENEVER YOU CAN:


    --------------------------------------鈥?br>

    SINGLE PAY, OR GO AWAY!


    WE VOTE AGAIN IN TWENTY TEN!


    --------------------------------------鈥?br>




    SEND IT TO YOUR REPRESENTATIVE


    SEND IT TO YOUR SENATORS


    SEND IT TO ANYONE WHO CARES ABOUT THEIR HEALTH


    KEEP SENDING IT TIL THEY GET THE INSURANCE COMPANIES TO STOP RIPPING PEOPLE OFF, CANCLING POLICIES, DENYING COVERAGE AND KILLING PEOPLE!





    YOU LOVE YOUR FAMILY?


    YOU WANT SOMETHING WORTH FIGHTING FOR?


    IT DOESN'T GET ANY MORE IMPORTANT THAN THIS, UNLESS YOU COUNT SHREDDING THE BILL OF RIGHTS LIKE BUSH DID.
    It's coming. You ';repubs'; have left this country in SUCH a bad state, it's going to take some time to fix everything. We haven't had Universal Healthcare in our 200+ year history. You expect Obama to do it in only 4 months?
    Corruption is bipartisan, Obama will prove to be just as guilty as Bush, but not as evil as Cheney.
    They are destroying America at a vast rate. One so called Republicans give a little , a lot gets taken and it is irreversible.
    they are in committee...





    you guys cry when we push something through fast...and cry when we don't...





    we were kind of busy with the economy for a while there...

    While taking the birth control pill, and you have sex when you menstruate, can you get pregnant or no?

    When you have your period you have the LEAST chance of getting pregnant because you have already ovulated and the uterus is now shedding it's inner layer.While taking the birth control pill, and you have sex when you menstruate, can you get pregnant or no?
    When taken as directed, birth control pills fool the body into thinking it is already pregnant, and you do not ovulate. At all. So the answer is no.While taking the birth control pill, and you have sex when you menstruate, can you get pregnant or no?
    You're just as covered as when you're taking the pill, something about the menstruation not being a real period but more a fake one for peace of mind
    if you're on your birth control pills then you have 99.9% coverage against pregnancy. If you're not on the pill then you can get pregnant anytime, even on your period.
    They always say'; it's never safe '; but I would think it would be most unlikely that you would fall pregnant.
    yes you can get pregnant if you had sex while menstruating....

    Do u think spoiled rotten brats with no disipline who control their parents can be possessed by evil spirits?

    My neighbor's 7 year old is possessed by the devil. He starts fires in the house, beats on his mother when he doesn't get his way and has a permanent frown on his face. His diagnosis is Bi-Polar and ADHD, but he's just plain evil.


    What do you think? Could he be helped by exorcism?Do u think spoiled rotten brats with no disipline who control their parents can be possessed by evil spirits?
    Sometimes I think it can seem that way but really I think its that they are still living in the baby stage, when they want something they hoop and holler until they get what they want. I think what is scary though is that certain emotional and social skills may have not continued to grow and expand and yet there ways become more clever as their intelect grows leading to manipulation and schemingDo u think spoiled rotten brats with no disipline who control their parents can be possessed by evil spirits?
    This child's problem is because he was spoiled, and his parent's are now trying to set ground rules which will not work for a child that's used to getting their way. He needs discipline not an exorcism.
    Sounds like a sick child to me. There are medications that could help with his behavior.
    I think spoiled rotten brats with no discipline who control their parents were given license to do so BY their parents. 7-year olds aren't and can't be evil. They do what 1. they see, 2. they are taught, and 3. what they are allowed to get away with. I know someone who has 2 grown sons (although they don't act it, and their father still treats them as babies) and they are helpless, and a bit hopeless, particularly the eldest. It's too late. The damage is done.
    He may perceive the exorcism as punishment and act out even worse. These behaviors are learned, for the most part, shocking as they are, and result from parenting unskilled in dealing with a disturbed child. Firesetting is a cardinal sign of a mental illness. He needs re-evaluation by a good psychiatrist and firm supervision in ensuring he takes his medications.
    If they don't have discipline - then it's the parent's fault! He isn't necessarily possessed! If you look in the Bible at demon possessed people - they harmed themselves!





    His problem is sin - it's not been tamed by discipline - his mother's making a rod for her own back!
    No the problem is they are spoiled and probly never disciplined for doing wrong things or taught to do the right thing.

    What do I do if no audio on computer? I go into control panel/audio...

    and it is like I cannot adjust the colume. detents are low in contrast like you cannot select them. No sound. Went into DIAXDAG and say audio used by another caller.What do I do if no audio on computer? I go into control panel/audio...
    check your speakers and see if it works by plugging it into your ipod and such.





    And restart your computer, if no sound again. then you mite have to download a codec or something.

    Birth control with no period.?

    I just started birth control this month, is it normal to skip a period?Birth control with no period.?
    It's normal for your period to act wierd the first couple of times but it will get back to a regular course unless you are on the shot which will cause you to miss them often.
  • skin blackheads
  • Birth control but no period.?

    I been taking birth control for about a year now, and im at the end of my pack and havent got my period. This is the first time this has happened. I have been having sex. But are there any reasons i havent got my period/?Birth control but no period.?
    Yes, you could be pregnant.





    Take a test.Birth control but no period.?
    take a pregnancy test...you might be pregnant...some presciption drugs interact with birth control pills and they become ineffective.....EPT test.....good luck
    Well some point don't worry because its comman to not have a period. i was on birth control for about 2 years i had a period everyday, and lost Weight birth control have an effect on many people and everyone body is diffrent , most people don't have a period, but its best if you go get checked out it depends if you on the pill and miss one you might be pregnant but if your on the shot or the patch dont worry its just that your body changing.
    my friend also used to suddenly skip a couple of periods with birth control pills. she thought that she was pregnant and all. she consulted her doctor and found out she wasn't. the doctor prescribed meds to regulate her period and also prescribed new BC pills. so the absence of your period may be due your BC pills but of course we shouldn't neglect the possiblity of being pregnant at that. i suggest you see your doctor. good luck!

    Windows taskmanager (control+alt+delete) no longer showing processes?

    Before it would show all processes on computer, now it just shows the task and the status. Anyone know what the problem is? Could it be theres no longer enough space on my harddrive?Windows taskmanager (control+alt+delete) no longer showing processes?
    silly, u r under application tab


    click processes tab all u will see what u used to see before

    When I try to get volume control up it gives me this message there are no mixers installed?

    -you need to install an audio driver.


    -If you dont see the volume icon in your taskbar, there is no audio driver installed

    Why dont I hear anyone saying ';say no to gunt control'; now?

    why aren't the republicans saying ';say no to gun control?








    why are they all like a wet cat now?Why dont I hear anyone saying ';say no to gunt control'; now?
    What's the difference between clever gunts and women gun-owners?





    Ones a bunch of cunning gunts...





    [sorry, I couldn't help myself.]


    ----------------


    On the serious side, gun control doesn't work. If we look at England or Australia, we see that banning guns only removed the protection from law-abiding citizens, and made crime a heck of a lot safer. Both have seen INCREASES in gun crime.





    And, studies also show that allowing law-abiding citizens the right to carry guns to protect themselves results in reduced crime.





    And gun laws don't prevent criminals from obtaining guns. They never did.Why dont I hear anyone saying ';say no to gunt control'; now?
    I still say no to gun contol. This guy was a madman who would have killed another way if no gun was available. You can make napalm with gasoline and jello, are we going to ban those too?
    Gun control won't stop this kind of thing. In case after case gun crimes actually increase when law abiding citizens are disarmed by authorities.
    no to gunt control
    We may need stupid *** liberal control but hey dude guns don't kill people do.
    This CAT says no to gun control, and I dont care who knows it...
    Guns do not make you a killer. IMO killing makes you a killer. You can kill someone wit a baseball bat or a car, but no one is trying to ban you from driving to the ball game.
    SAY NO TO GUN CONTROL





    Edit: If all the students have guns, this would not have been as bad as it was, and why don't you come to the USA and spew your vitriol in person?
    I think everyone should control their gunts.
    Do you have an argument to suggest that gun control laws would have stopped this? If so.. make it.
    Ok how about ';say no to gun control'; - does that work for you? Not one gun control law would of prevented what happened today. We need to start outlawing crazy wack jobs and start putting them back into mental hospitals like we used to.
    whats a gunt.
    I'm saying it.


    If somebody had been armed maybe some of the victims would be alive.


    These nuts always attack the unarmed and defenseless.
    No gun control (I am a liberal).





    Instead:


    Strict restrictions on obtaining gun permits and purchases. Also - better access to benefits for mental health!
    Yes, let's control those ';gunts';. Just keep your hands off our guns though. Stop the people who are buying them illegally.
    Can we start with you Dennuis, considering you're obviously retarded?

    Birth Control Pills...no sex drive?

    so i recently got on birth control pills. going for my second month. it feels like it totally killed my sex drive. i dont want to do anything physical like at all. i feel bad for my bf cuz he kisses me and its like doing everythiiing for him..on the other hand im just like are you done? arghh..i dont know what to do. i feel like im pushing him away but ahh what can i do?!Birth Control Pills...no sex drive?
    One common problem that happens is this. I have been there and done that. You have to figure out what it is first that is destroying your sex drive. If your on medication like birth control or anti-depressants that is something to think about and do research on. Other then that it could just be stress, maybe the kids, really anything that makes your life stressful can do this and lower the libido.





    One thing I tried that seemed to work while I was doing it was exercising. I just felt sexier doing it which kind of boosted my libido. However it wasn't the best solution for me. My friend told me about these herbal enhancers that are made from natural herbs and don't cause any side effects besides having wild sex. She said it's the female version of viagra. I had to find out.





    I would always have a weak orgasm too (if I had one at all), which after trying this sex enhancer, it boosted them tremendously. I don't get multiple orgasms but I've had plenty since being on these herbs. It's seriously like the best vibrator ride you've ever experienced. These things make me horny all the time, some days I don't even take them because the urge is just too strong.





    Don't try out single herbs because they don't do it like the blend of herbs these scientists and researchers pick out. I've tried a couple of them by itself and they did crap. The stuff that I'm on is called Hersolution, at the time I saved money on it at herenhancement.com . Make sure you get the 3 month supply that way you fall under the guarantee/return policy if the herbs don't work for you, you can return them with no questions ask. I bet they will work though and you won't have any problems. Also if your on medication of any sort, check out the gel because if your like me, you wouldn't want to swallow any thing that might react with the medications your already on.





    Well have a good day and hopefully you solved your problem.Birth Control Pills...no sex drive?
    I've had friends who have had this problem. I would talk to your doctor... they may recommend switching the type of pill you are on.

    Birth control for no periods?

    ok i'm on my high school's swim team and i hate being in the water and on my period. it just sucks. so i was wondering would birth control work? i know i'd have one like every 4 months (or something like that) so any advice would be appreciated!!! thanks :)Birth control for no periods?
    seasonique gives you four periods a year. I hear that it's okay to do that and i've heard it's not okay for your body. So I would talk to a doctor and see what they think.
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  • Birth control with no condem? pregnant?

    i have been on tri cylcen lo for 6 months now. it has been working great. but i need something cleared up. my boyfriend and i this month have had unprotected sex a few times and he pulled out. is it okay to have sex without a condem while on the pill? i usually take it everyday around the same time. usually around 10. but sometimes 9, 11, or 12. is that to late to take it? could i be pregnant? im supposed to start today and i havent yet. even though i feel really hungry.. but usually id be spotting on sunday.. help? im stressin over this.Birth control with no condem? pregnant?
    Don't worry. The times your taking it are fine, but ofcourse the more often you take it the same time the better it works. It is ok to have sex without a condom while on the pill, but the pill is only 99% effective when taken as prescribed so the more precautions you take the better. I wouldn't worry about your period to much just give it a couple days.Birth control with no condem? pregnant?
    anything is possible
    I am pretty sure you are not pregnant. You seem to be very accurate about taking the pill. Taking it a couple hours earlier or later is ok. The pill isn't 100% effective but if you take it correctly it's 99% so i'd say you are probably ok. And yes you can have unprotected sex while on birth control as long asyou know he doesn't have any STDs b/c you can still get them.
    you can get pregnant on birth control. you really should take your pill at the same time everyday. but on occasion its ok to take it alittle bit later than usual. your period will change days that it starts even when you are on birth control. when i first started taking it i would start like on that saturday of the green pills, but by the time i was off of them i would start on tuesday. so i wouldnt stress over just one day. now come thursday and you havent started yet i would go to the docotor or get a test.
    you have about a four hour window where you can take the pill normally. However the lo hormone pills carry a higher pregnancy risk then the full hormone pills so it is important to try and take in at the same time every day.


    You are probably fine since you are taking the pill everyday and at around the same time. If you don't start your period in a couple of days then take an at home test. If it is negative take on again in a couple of days. If you are still negative and haven't gotten your period then you should probably talk to you doctor to make sure there isn't anything more serious going on.


    Some lo hormone pills, will cause you to not have a period. Mine did the first time I was on them.
    If you have taken your pill everyday then you are most likely not pregnant so I would not worry.

    GUN CONTROL, Yes, No and why?

    When the Government disarms Americans


    I my opinion, thats when America will be lost.





    If a good student at VA Tech, had a gun, he/she may have save a couple dozen lives.GUN CONTROL, Yes, No and why?
    Which would you rather have if an intruder was entering your home: a knife or a shotgun? If you have a knife, you would have to engage the intruder up close and stand a much better chance of him or her getting the best of you (and possibly subsequently leaving open the wife/husband/kids you are charged with protecting). I know firsthand that the mere *sound* of a shotgun cocking will stand back someone who is trying to sneak into your home.





    I once lived in a duplex that, unbeknownst to me had a shared attic (it was a desperation rental)--a guy entered from the other side and was looking around in our attic when my husband ****** the shotgun and then said, ';I hear you up there.'; The guy quickly returned to the other side and left. Subsequently I learned this same fellow had committed a series of robberies of businesses where he entered through the ceiling.). No violence required, just the sound. I don't imagine the love of Christ or ';I have a knife'; would have had the same effect. And the police usually don't come until they're called, i.e., when it's all over. A gun gives you the advantage of distance and relative safety. Not everyone is a karate black belt or kung fu master, so it is folly to require that they all engage with an intruder closely. It would result in more casualties, wouldn't it?





    Sure, guns are designed as lethal weapons. It is the use we make of them and the attitude we adopt in their use that matters. The mere possession of a gun may be enough to dissuade someone from committing a crime. Heinlein's quote about ';an armed society is a polite society'; is apt when guns are used properly and not impulsively. Sadly, many people do not have any self-control, and they think the ownership and possession of a gun gives them godlike powers. It just isn't so--it is like putting a 3-year-old behind the wheel of a truck and handing them the keys.





    The real problem is people--how do we assess a person's mental fitness to own a firearm? Since mental health sciences are inexact at best, this opens an already festering can of worms. There is already a lot of subjectiveness and abuse going on in the mental health realm; it is ripe for reform. However, underlying the supposed ideal of curing the mentally ill, the field's practical mandate has become control, rather than cure. Kids are given strong medication instead of good counseling and attention; stressed workers and students are given pills instead of real human help; people who have nervous breakdowns are simply patched up and thrust back into the rat race that made them break down in the first place. There is a real societal problem with stress that is not addressed. Instead, people focus on the superficial, the tools and affectations of the ones who truly act out in spectacular ways. They blame the guns instead of the finger that pulls the trigger. There is a silent problem in society that only sees the light of day when someone like Cho erupts in violence and makes us look. And even then, we don't seem to be able to look in the proper direction. The solution would be to address and study the factors that cause this slow boilover in all walks of society. The murderous rampage seems to be on the increase. What factors contribute? How can they be controlled? Once you introduce more legislative control, the underlying causes become secondary, mere hindsight signposts to the next massacre. The key is to prevent these causes from blossoming into chaos, to identify them and neutralize them. But, of course, that would be too much to ask, so our society continues to be focused on mopping up after the broken members wreak havoc and bemoaning ';what could we have done?.';GUN CONTROL, Yes, No and why?
    the best form of gun control is to do what the swiss do, allow all unless crazy to have a gun, they have MORE guns than anyone per person yet fewer crimes than all EU countries ?





    In UK since guns were made illegal GUNCRIME has risen, the police are armed to the teeth so are the criminals the only ones that are not are those potential victims.





    EQUALITY dies when YOU enter UK.....
    There are thousands of laws addressing firearms. You cannot control a madman.





    I will not be disarmed until I am dead.
    No gun control..If they do that,the only people that will have them are the criminals..........We need to be able to protect ourselves.There is no way to keep guns out of a criminals hands....
    I would agree; more guns are the answer rather than less. If good people are armed, bad guys think twice about attacking. If the govt disarms American, then bad guys will be the only ones with guns and they will have free reign.
    Control who has access guns, those that do have access should be trained to use them. Gun ownership should normally be a requirement for all adults, you should only lose the right when you commit criminal acts or show that you are mentally unstable.





    Guns are not the problem, the problem is that too many people who are not good citizens have guns.
    A good student at VaTech DID have a gun and he killed people with it. At least he was good enough to buy a gun in Virginia.





    And what if someone else did have a gun and tried to stop him. He came in blazing and rapidly shot a professor and started pugging students around himm.





    If there was a SWAT team IN THE ROOM, he probably would have still killed 5 or 6 people. An untrained, terrified student with a gun - how long before that person got up and fired back. You do realize that in war, many soldiers who are being shot at never fire their guns because they are so frightened.





    If he had only killed 7 or 8 people would be be celebrating how great it is that the students were armed?





    And then consider 26,000 armed youth wondering around a college campus. How many additional deaths would there be from some fight over a parking space or ';get your hands off my girl'; or ';stop playing that damn music so loud';?





    Is arming people really the answer?
    Gun control: Both hands on the gun. Forward sight, make sure there is nothing behind the target (liberal) and pull the trigger.
    Gun control.... yes


    Gun BAN....no





    There is a happy medium between the two.
    Most crimes are not all committed with illegally procured weapons. The news focuses on those higher profile ones that were procured legally. Media bias puts a lot of emphasis on this. People who desire to commit a violent crime will always find a way. The gun is only an inanimate object and can not act on its own. It takes a psycho to make it kill a person.


    Banning won't solve anything.
    What a great statement. I agree with you. And realistically, if the government thinks that they can disarm people, they are so seriously mistaken. I for one, am not gonna give up my right to defend myself. Furthermore there are other means of taken peoples lives, its just not guns. People are failing to realize this. And they forget that guns don't kill people, people kill people!
    The only place I know of that you can read where a gun SAVED the life of a prospective victim is in the NRA publication, The American Rifleman. The media are only interested when a criminal uses a gun to kill innocents. But, for anyone willing to address the issue with an open mind, that is, with no prejudice toward one side or the other, it becomes obvious that gun control laws only serve to disarm law abiding citizens and that 'gun-free zones' only entice criminals.
    No.
    No just put a censer on the tool or gun monitor them. Know where they are at all times.
    Gun control is good to a point- There will always be weapons - just look what happens in our prisons. The type of weapon that is geared to high volume kill (machine gun) needs to be controlled. We would not want citizens to have nuclear weapons - why would we want them to have rocket launchers - yet a hunting rifle or single shot handgun for self protection makes sense.
    Any law that guarantees only outlaws will be armed will always result in the mass carnage we saw in W. Virginia and have seen all too often.

    Birth control shot...no period?

    I got my first birth control shot (every 3 months) in Dec last year but ever since Jan i dont get my period. Is this normal or common and is it ok health wise? I love it but it kind of concerns me. I did get spotting but very little just had to wear a pantyliner.Birth control shot...no period?
    Yeah, I was on it for an entire year and never actually had a period, though I did spot the entire time. Hey, that shot is poison anyway, some women love it, but it seems to have the most annoying side effects when compared to other birth controls. Anyway, I'm just going to tell you some things to look out for because I personally had side effects on that shot that ruined an entire year of my life and I didn't know it was the shot doing that to me for so long. Anyway, if you notice you become more irritable than usual and have mood swings(I did) or you have no sex drive(it KILLED mine) or you get headaches(I got them everyday) and here's some more crap it can cause that didn't happen to me but happens to some women: acne, weight gain, hair loss, depression, anxiety(actually I WAS depressed an anxious) unwanted facial hair, and breast size change. Good luck, I hope it works out for you, but look out for the things I mentioned, in case they happen to you, so you'll know why.Birth control shot...no period?
    i have recently started the shot. I was told when i started it it could stop my cycles altogether or it could make them spotty but could adventually go away...i think you are ok you are just one of the lucky ones...
    that's normal, it stops totally after awhile, i have an implanon and that's what happened to me. my sister got the shot had it stopped hers.
    The shot often stops the menstrual cycle all together.


    It's normal.

    Is there really no tailgating in NLF controlled lots at the Super Bowl?

    I'm going to the Super Bowl this year, but I've noticed that all the parking lots say that there is no tailgating. Is this just for show?Is there really no tailgating in NLF controlled lots at the Super Bowl?
    Correct! They could never get rid of that, ha ha. I went in San Diego a while back and it is insane





    ALTHOUGH, I have been to Bucs games before and it is not so easy to tailgate as far as huge lots. So there will be a little bit of strategy needed on your part, ha ha

    I have windows xp. My volume is not working when I go to volume control it says NO ACTIVE MIXER DEVICE?

    How do I fix this ???I have windows xp. My volume is not working when I go to volume control it says NO ACTIVE MIXER DEVICE?
    Install the driver for your sound card

    Are hippies a cult? if so, how is status and power used to control group members?..when theirs is no leader?

    why did people want to become a hippie?Are hippies a cult? if so, how is status and power used to control group members?..when theirs is no leader?
    Hippies are of a different generation. You will never understand them. You will not understand their CULTURE, their generation, their views, nor what they stood for or what they believed in!Are hippies a cult? if so, how is status and power used to control group members?..when theirs is no leader?
    Hippies are not a cult. Therefore the second question is irrelevant. People don't become hippies. You call people hippies. I defy you to find a self-described ';hippie'; who isn't a total cosmopolitan, rich-mommy-and-daddy tool.
    back in the 60s they thought they could control the world. they thought they could change the ways of the world. in the real world they lose. they were the ones who was changed
    No being a hippy is a lifestyle, you can be a hippy by yourself, cults have hierarchical leaders with different members.
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    Birth control with no condem? pregnant?

    i have been on tri cylcen lo for 6 months now. it has been working great. but i need something cleared up. my boyfriend and i this month have had unprotected sex a few times and he pulled out. is it okay to have sex without a condem while on the pill? i usually take it everyday around the same time. usually around 10. but sometimes 9, 11, or 12. is that to late to take it? could i be pregnant? im supposed to start today and i havent yet. even though i feel really hungry.. but usually id be spotting on sunday.. help? im stressin over this.Birth control with no condem? pregnant?
    Don't worry. The times your taking it are fine, but ofcourse the more often you take it the same time the better it works. It is ok to have sex without a condom while on the pill, but the pill is only 99% effective when taken as prescribed so the more precautions you take the better. I wouldn't worry about your period to much just give it a couple days.Birth control with no condem? pregnant?
    anything is possible
    I am pretty sure you are not pregnant. You seem to be very accurate about taking the pill. Taking it a couple hours earlier or later is ok. The pill isn't 100% effective but if you take it correctly it's 99% so i'd say you are probably ok. And yes you can have unprotected sex while on birth control as long asyou know he doesn't have any STDs b/c you can still get them.
    you can get pregnant on birth control. you really should take your pill at the same time everyday. but on occasion its ok to take it alittle bit later than usual. your period will change days that it starts even when you are on birth control. when i first started taking it i would start like on that saturday of the green pills, but by the time i was off of them i would start on tuesday. so i wouldnt stress over just one day. now come thursday and you havent started yet i would go to the docotor or get a test.
    you have about a four hour window where you can take the pill normally. However the lo hormone pills carry a higher pregnancy risk then the full hormone pills so it is important to try and take in at the same time every day.


    You are probably fine since you are taking the pill everyday and at around the same time. If you don't start your period in a couple of days then take an at home test. If it is negative take on again in a couple of days. If you are still negative and haven't gotten your period then you should probably talk to you doctor to make sure there isn't anything more serious going on.


    Some lo hormone pills, will cause you to not have a period. Mine did the first time I was on them.
    If you have taken your pill everyday then you are most likely not pregnant so I would not worry.

    GUN CONTROL, Yes, No and why?

    When the Government disarms Americans


    I my opinion, thats when America will be lost.





    If a good student at VA Tech, had a gun, he/she may have save a couple dozen lives.GUN CONTROL, Yes, No and why?
    Which would you rather have if an intruder was entering your home: a knife or a shotgun? If you have a knife, you would have to engage the intruder up close and stand a much better chance of him or her getting the best of you (and possibly subsequently leaving open the wife/husband/kids you are charged with protecting). I know firsthand that the mere *sound* of a shotgun cocking will stand back someone who is trying to sneak into your home.





    I once lived in a duplex that, unbeknownst to me had a shared attic (it was a desperation rental)--a guy entered from the other side and was looking around in our attic when my husband ****** the shotgun and then said, ';I hear you up there.'; The guy quickly returned to the other side and left. Subsequently I learned this same fellow had committed a series of robberies of businesses where he entered through the ceiling.). No violence required, just the sound. I don't imagine the love of Christ or ';I have a knife'; would have had the same effect. And the police usually don't come until they're called, i.e., when it's all over. A gun gives you the advantage of distance and relative safety. Not everyone is a karate black belt or kung fu master, so it is folly to require that they all engage with an intruder closely. It would result in more casualties, wouldn't it?





    Sure, guns are designed as lethal weapons. It is the use we make of them and the attitude we adopt in their use that matters. The mere possession of a gun may be enough to dissuade someone from committing a crime. Heinlein's quote about ';an armed society is a polite society'; is apt when guns are used properly and not impulsively. Sadly, many people do not have any self-control, and they think the ownership and possession of a gun gives them godlike powers. It just isn't so--it is like putting a 3-year-old behind the wheel of a truck and handing them the keys.





    The real problem is people--how do we assess a person's mental fitness to own a firearm? Since mental health sciences are inexact at best, this opens an already festering can of worms. There is already a lot of subjectiveness and abuse going on in the mental health realm; it is ripe for reform. However, underlying the supposed ideal of curing the mentally ill, the field's practical mandate has become control, rather than cure. Kids are given strong medication instead of good counseling and attention; stressed workers and students are given pills instead of real human help; people who have nervous breakdowns are simply patched up and thrust back into the rat race that made them break down in the first place. There is a real societal problem with stress that is not addressed. Instead, people focus on the superficial, the tools and affectations of the ones who truly act out in spectacular ways. They blame the guns instead of the finger that pulls the trigger. There is a silent problem in society that only sees the light of day when someone like Cho erupts in violence and makes us look. And even then, we don't seem to be able to look in the proper direction. The solution would be to address and study the factors that cause this slow boilover in all walks of society. The murderous rampage seems to be on the increase. What factors contribute? How can they be controlled? Once you introduce more legislative control, the underlying causes become secondary, mere hindsight signposts to the next massacre. The key is to prevent these causes from blossoming into chaos, to identify them and neutralize them. But, of course, that would be too much to ask, so our society continues to be focused on mopping up after the broken members wreak havoc and bemoaning ';what could we have done?.';GUN CONTROL, Yes, No and why?
    the best form of gun control is to do what the swiss do, allow all unless crazy to have a gun, they have MORE guns than anyone per person yet fewer crimes than all EU countries ?





    In UK since guns were made illegal GUNCRIME has risen, the police are armed to the teeth so are the criminals the only ones that are not are those potential victims.





    EQUALITY dies when YOU enter UK.....
    There are thousands of laws addressing firearms. You cannot control a madman.





    I will not be disarmed until I am dead.
    No gun control..If they do that,the only people that will have them are the criminals..........We need to be able to protect ourselves.There is no way to keep guns out of a criminals hands....
    I would agree; more guns are the answer rather than less. If good people are armed, bad guys think twice about attacking. If the govt disarms American, then bad guys will be the only ones with guns and they will have free reign.
    Control who has access guns, those that do have access should be trained to use them. Gun ownership should normally be a requirement for all adults, you should only lose the right when you commit criminal acts or show that you are mentally unstable.





    Guns are not the problem, the problem is that too many people who are not good citizens have guns.
    A good student at VaTech DID have a gun and he killed people with it. At least he was good enough to buy a gun in Virginia.





    And what if someone else did have a gun and tried to stop him. He came in blazing and rapidly shot a professor and started pugging students around himm.





    If there was a SWAT team IN THE ROOM, he probably would have still killed 5 or 6 people. An untrained, terrified student with a gun - how long before that person got up and fired back. You do realize that in war, many soldiers who are being shot at never fire their guns because they are so frightened.





    If he had only killed 7 or 8 people would be be celebrating how great it is that the students were armed?





    And then consider 26,000 armed youth wondering around a college campus. How many additional deaths would there be from some fight over a parking space or ';get your hands off my girl'; or ';stop playing that damn music so loud';?





    Is arming people really the answer?
    Gun control: Both hands on the gun. Forward sight, make sure there is nothing behind the target (liberal) and pull the trigger.
    Gun control.... yes


    Gun BAN....no





    There is a happy medium between the two.
    Most crimes are not all committed with illegally procured weapons. The news focuses on those higher profile ones that were procured legally. Media bias puts a lot of emphasis on this. People who desire to commit a violent crime will always find a way. The gun is only an inanimate object and can not act on its own. It takes a psycho to make it kill a person.


    Banning won't solve anything.
    What a great statement. I agree with you. And realistically, if the government thinks that they can disarm people, they are so seriously mistaken. I for one, am not gonna give up my right to defend myself. Furthermore there are other means of taken peoples lives, its just not guns. People are failing to realize this. And they forget that guns don't kill people, people kill people!
    The only place I know of that you can read where a gun SAVED the life of a prospective victim is in the NRA publication, The American Rifleman. The media are only interested when a criminal uses a gun to kill innocents. But, for anyone willing to address the issue with an open mind, that is, with no prejudice toward one side or the other, it becomes obvious that gun control laws only serve to disarm law abiding citizens and that 'gun-free zones' only entice criminals.
    No.
    No just put a censer on the tool or gun monitor them. Know where they are at all times.
    Gun control is good to a point- There will always be weapons - just look what happens in our prisons. The type of weapon that is geared to high volume kill (machine gun) needs to be controlled. We would not want citizens to have nuclear weapons - why would we want them to have rocket launchers - yet a hunting rifle or single shot handgun for self protection makes sense.
    Any law that guarantees only outlaws will be armed will always result in the mass carnage we saw in W. Virginia and have seen all too often.