I have no self control when it comes to....?

Ok, I am 15, and I can't stop looking at certain images and videos that are not meant for children, if you know what I mean. Like, I do it whenever my parents leave. Now, I'm not a ';bad'; kid; I consistently make A's on report cards, and never have been in detention or anything. I myself because of what I do; I don't want to get in trouble (again), but mostly, I don't want it to ruin my relationship with my friends. I just can't control myself, like my ';bad side'; just takes over. Ugh! How do I quit this bad habit and gain morals before I ruin myself?!?!?!?I have no self control when it comes to....?
You're just a kid, you're being way too hard on yourself.


It's great that you are an A student, and your curiousity shouldn't affect your perception of yourself. It's perfectly healthy for people that age to develop an interest in that kind of stuff. I am sure you'll grow out of it when you find a good girlfriend and settle down. It's not like it consumes your life. Which it seems to for most teens. Honestly, you're not as bad as most people in your age group. Trust me ;]I have no self control when it comes to....?
you're not ruining yourself.





your hormones are taking over your body and you're being a normal teenager. don't sweat it, you're not going to hell, hun.





however, if this issue really makes you feel like you've commited the crime of the century, make a point to do something else when your parents leave. make plans to do it before they leave. go on a run down the block, listen to your iPod, shoot some hoops, read a book. if you really don't trust yourself, make a point not to turn the computer/any other image source on when you're home alone.





this is normal for teenagers...don't beat yourself up.
I had that same problem, with the videos because when I got a free computer it was full of bad videos . Now I'm getting better because I got a closer to religion to stop me from watching that when my parents weren't home. Still sometimes I get the feeling that I need to watch them but I've been able to control my-self.
don't worry about it too much. I've got mates who watch it 24/7. Just try to think about something else that you enjoy and concentrate on that so you forget about the vids and pics. And it's not gonna ruin you, it might make you a bit different but everyone will eventually catch up Good luck :)
you are 15 and you're a boy... most boys your age spend hours and hours doing that sort of thing! There is nothing immoral about it. You aren't hurting anyone, just do not let it get in the way of your school work and it should be fine. Lots of adolescents go through these phases.