Ok is there any other ways to prevent pregnacy. My girlfriends doesn't wanna use BC because the rumor of it making women gain weight, and we dont like the condom because it reduces the sensation for both of us. Most likely we may end up using the condom though. What other contrsecptive are there?No condom no birth control, other ideas?
[abstinence]No condom no birth control, other ideas?
There's the little foam bullet she can put inside (it has spermacide on it to kill off any swimmers)
most guys don't like the condom because of the sensativity issue, but women tend to like them because the guy tends to last longer. use a better rubber, don't get the cheap ones.
Birth control doenst make every woman gain weight. Just have her go on it and tell her to watch what she eats the first month or two and work out a lil more and she shouldnt gain any. After a few months her body will be use to it and she can go back to her normal routine.
The pull out method doesn't work. 90% conception happens within the first few minutes of sex. There are many pills out there. You can try low dose estrogen pills or even progesterone pills. Those shouldn't cause weight gain. Not all women gain weight on regular pills, either. However, my friend just got his wife preggo on the progesterone pills. The Nuva Ring is the safest way but it's only 99% effective. I just got my wife preggo on that. I think something is in the water...
don't have sex
there is a shot she can get that supposedly prevents pregnancy for like three months or something or an iud...and if these arent good for the two of you then stop having sex
USE A CONDOM. THEY PREVENT DISEASE. NO OTHER CONTRACEPTION DOES.
OK now thats out of the way:
There is the Today sponge, back on the market, but it only prevents pregnancy.
Diaphragm, coated in spermicide, which unfortunately can be only 85% effective and does not prevent disease.
Pull out is only 19% effective DO NOT USE.
IUD implant at the doctors, works for five years, no STD protection.
Depo shot, works for three months, again, no STD protection.
Nuva ring, works for one month, but can slip out, and has no STD protection.
Oral sex has low risk for STDs (but still possible!!) and no chance of pregnancy. Since your girlfriend isnt mature enough to make proper birth control decisions, maybe this should be your option. Any woman who cant see that five pounds of gained weight is neglible in the light of having a child, is too stupid to trust to make those decisions.
Lamb skin condoms allow more sensation and prevent pregnancy, but I've heard its iffy on STDs.
Not using a condom because it ';ruins'; the ';sensation'; is as irresponsible as you two kiddies having sex in the first place. ALWAYS protect yourself against STDs!
Some women do gain weight on 'the pill' however the majority do not. I would suggest that your girlfriend at least try the pill and monitor her weight, if she gains weight then she can stop the pill and little harm if any has been done.
There are spermicide products which you can use within the vagina prior to sex so that fertilization of the egg does not occur. As you are discussing sex without a condom you need to be aware that you are not protected for STDs with this method.
There are other non pill methods of birth control however these may too have risks of weight gain, although slim.
If you are dedicated partners and you have already tested clean for all STDs (and you trust your partner not to cheat) then you can have sex without protection. If you haven't been tested yet to ensure you are both clean then you really should do so, if nothing else for peace of mind.
An IUD or IUC
Spermicide
Charting Your Basal BodyTemperature
Ovulation microscope/Fertility monitor
Diaphrahm
Tubaligation
You and your girlfriend should visit a doctor or clinic to discuss this to find one she is comfortable with. There are a couple others like injection. coil etc but most of them require professional help.
She could ask her pharmacist for a low dose pill that does not affect her weight.
Good to see you taking an interest. Condoms are your best bet as they are the only ones to protect you from STDs.
NO SEX!! If your gf is afraid of gaining weight and you don't like condoms...I am going to take a wild guess and say you are both too young/immature to be having sex anyway.
oral sex
There's the birth control patch, the nuva ring inserts, the things they insert under the skin...the list goes on and on. Personally, I think she should research birth control pills more on her own. It seems silly to dismiss the idea just becuase of a ';rumor';.
Look into the Fertility Awareness Method. This requires your girlfriend to track the signs of fertility (cervical fluid, morning temp, cervical position) throughout the month to determine when she is at her fertile period. During this time, you'll want to abstain or use some form of protection. During the non-fertile periods, you can have sex without protection (assuming this a a monogamous relationship with no risk of STDs. Sorry, had to mention that one :-%26gt; ).
The Fertility Awareness Method requires much diligence, but does work if you are both very committed to following the signs and being careful.
Toni Weschler's book, ';Taking Charge of Your Fertility'; is a good resource for truly understanding how this works.
There are other choices - NO sex, diaphram (she gets from OBFYN) or you get a vasectomy.
Withdrawl does not work because 24/7 there is live sperm on the penis.
heres a great method of birth control and it doesnt cost a dime....
ABSITINENCE UNTIL MARRIAGE
Ask her if she would rather gain 3-5 pounds on the pill or 25-30 being pregnant%26gt;??
keep away
Coil
Diaphram
Abstenance
YOU DO IT IN HER MOUTH ONLY! =)
Instead of listening to rumors, why doesn't your girlfriend talk with her doctor about the different forms of BC and find one that is best for her. They are so many different forms, I am sure there are several that don't cause weight gain. Get informed.
don't have sex.
Just don't have Sex
I don't know if they still make it or not, but a few years ago I used a contraceptive foam. It is over the counter and I think I got it at Walmart. Birth control doesn't actually make women gain weight. That is just a myth. It is safer to use BC than the pull out or rhythm methods many have suggested. Pregnancy makes you gain a lot more weight! Your girlfriend should talk to her doctor and they can recommond what is best for her.
a diaphram
no sex. and if she wants it bad enough she can get depo or nuvaring or the ortho patch
Yeah, no nookie. lol
Theirs really not much else, besides pulling out
have him pull it out when he cums
when you get an answer to this tell em because i want to know the same!!!!!!!11
condoms are so shitty
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