Why do i think that girls are mostly attracted to guys that are ';in control'; no matter their looks ?

like i have seen good looking girls, that say Michael Jackson i love you!!!! and their like 18 and stuff, and the guy obviously doesn't look cute, but if the guy isn't famous but looks good and isn't ';in control'; the girls aren't crazy about them and don't want to have their babies. Is it basically the psycology of females, about how they want a male that is in control, no matter how they look ? is it the ';power'; that the girls are after? because Michael Jackson, and many other not good looking famous people, i hear many good looking girls about how they have crushes on them, and how they want their babies. I am talking very hot girls here......... must be the ';fame'; and power and that their in control, that girls are really after ??????????? and attracted to ? Hugh Hefner for example too, he is like 85 and has 18 year olds that he does things with. Or like Kid rock he is like 44 and doesnt even shave and girls that are even virgins are crazy about him. But if he wasn't famous and just walking around town girls obviously wouldnt be begging to have his babies and have huge crushes and be in total love with him......... and like girls that want to have hugh hefners baby and hes like 85 and their like 18 on up, even younger.......... Says no matter what a guy looks like, just needs to be percieved as in control and powerful, and populer, and then the girls really want him right ?????Why do i think that girls are mostly attracted to guys that are ';in control'; no matter their looks ?
I don't know about Hugh Hefner, but Michael Jackson has that swagger and personality that makes a lot of females attracted to him, including me myself.





To me, it's not about looks, but about personality and confidence.





If you have those two, then expect for women to be interested in you, whether you are ugly or not.Why do i think that girls are mostly attracted to guys that are ';in control'; no matter their looks ?
well it's because the matter of confidence





it accounts for guys too,


confidence is such a great asset on anybody


guys like girls who are confident


hence, girls like guys who are ';in control';, aka confident





it's appealing and it's just human nature


having a high self-esteem is good, as long as they're not cocky


also i guess it's kinda sexy... lol
they like that ****!
girls like this are mostly going for money not looks and what they can get out of a relationship and are normally for all the wrong reasons,they want to be in the spot light and even if they know they might get used are willing to sell them selves short,and some just want bragging rights,and if they do get commitment then they get money.and sometimes a better life,most of them live in a fantasy world anyways,and one always thinks the grass is better on the other side,although most often than not it isn't and most girls always pass up the good guys for the bad ,women want a strong man and most often wants something they cant have,that's why they say good guys always comes in last.
well that's true but not true. Girls like guys for all different reasons. like hotness, personality, famous and stuff like that. Like the Jonas bros girls mostly only like them because they think their hot every girl is different
Kay, guys get just as crazy over moron girls that are famous... no they dont get as crazy at concerts but they want almost naked pictures of brittany spears and jessica simpson... or whoever is famous now - I personally couldnt care less about any of those people. They're all fakes. Hugh Hefner only has 18 year olds around because he pays them. Are you not aware that that is for show, it's not real?? Those arent really his girlfriends.


Girls, especially young and ignorant ones, like the images they see of these idealized guys... and guys do the same for girls. It's like, how in high school, a lot of kids want to go out with the most popular guys or girls. Usually, it's not for much more of a reason than that they ARE popular... they think subconsciously, well if everyone else wants them, I would gain so much more stature if iiiiiiii were the one with them. Celebrity crap is the same, just on a different scale. They have more beauty, or more power, just more of things that attract masses of people. Even though they may not really actually be worthwhile people on the inside.


It's not a girl thing, it's a stupid, immature person thing. Guys and girls alike. Find someone more mature/less shallow to worry about.
Ok girls are attracted to security. In every generation there is a different type of security. Two hundred years ago it was the people with land, then it was the farmers and in indian tribes it was the best fighter and best hunters. They want some one to take care of them In our generation it is the people with money. If you have a good job or lots of money you have the security for the future a woman wants. They want to know that they will be safe. Not living on the streets and food on the table for there family.