13 and want sex ? its hormonal but i cant control it no more !?

im scared weather i loos my virginity to some1 i don't like or if i have sex i relay want to and i think it is time don't think less of me i would always use protection what do you think and be honest x13 and want sex ? its hormonal but i cant control it no more !?
Ok honey im not going to tell you to do it or not to do it but from my personal experience i was 16 when i lost my virginity and it really isn't as great as tv makes it sound. I really wish i would have waited until i was in love with someone before i had sex. Im not going to lie at times it is a really good feeling but at other times you think why am i doing this I don't love this person. Now i am engaged to a wonderful guy and we haven't even had sex yet. Sex can sometimes make you think you are in love. Just make sure it is something you really want before you do it. Protection is the answer because you don't want to have a baby at 13. Babies are a huge responsibility that you aren't ready to take on! I would try masturbating first before you make the decision on having sex just be careful and have fun.13 and want sex ? its hormonal but i cant control it no more !?
First of all you are right your hormones are out of control but that is normal for a girl your age. How to protect yourself is never be alone with a boy because believe me those hormones will start raging when you are alone with a boy. I let my hormones get the best of me at your age and I ended up pregnant at 14 and unable to have anymore children due to promiscuity, (to many sex partners). Try to find outside interest, anything that you are interested in. Even if you have to go to the mall 5 times a week and just walk around. Get involved with a strong christian youth group at a local church. They know and understand all about the feelings a 13 year old will have and how to avoid doing something you will regret later. I want you to think about this for a minute. I am now a firm believer in abstinence (not having sex before marriage) and I will tell you why. How would you feel if on your birthday someone very special gave you a gift only when you opened it you were disappointed to find the gift was used. If you are giving a gift you don't want to give something that is used. The greatest gift you could give your husband is your virginity and you are only 13 and not going to get married anytime soon (at least I hope not) so I say wait and give that special gift of yourself to the person that deserves it the most and only you can make that decision. Good Luck!
It's normal to want to have sex. We are all biologically programmed to want to have sex, but in your case, 13 is really too young...you may not be able to handle the emotional aspects that result from early sex. Safe yourself for someone special later in your life.


A simple solution to your problem is to masturbate regularly...that is a safe way to enjoy the pleasureable sensations, and not get hurt
Your far too young to have sex, remember the consequences of it, Condoms do break and the pill isn't always effective. You have to realize, your education is more important, other wise how will you support having a baby.? Finish school, grow, have fun, find maturity and then look for a nice partner to share your life with. Praying and fasting help curb the urges of wanting sex.
At thirteen, your hormones are racing. You cannot make a smart decision about having sex that young unless it is to wait.


You lose it this early, you'll regret it, plain and simple.


You're so young to be throwing your childhood away. Have some self-control and wait until you're older and you're actually ready.
HOnest?... Don't.... and you can control it.... we, honestly, are not animals who cannot control an urge... WE CAN... it's all in the mind.





Honestly? you are way too young... and if you decide to tell yourself that you cannot control it, well... so be it... but it'll be nobody's option but yours... don't blame anyone or anything (such as hormones) for it... it's you who makes the move...





No one is going to think less of you.... you are the one who is already thinking about what everyone else is going to say...





You are in control! Own your choices and the consequences of such choice...


(wanted honest? well, there you go)





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Talk to your mom and dad about it:) that's what i did... Just because u want it doesn't mean your ready for it, u know? u will regret it.. you are way to young. take care and respect your body, if you dont, others wont. its Prolly more than just hormones sweety, im thinkin Peer presure, and thats some hard stuff to beat! your mom and dad will respect you and trust you alot more, if you go to them and ask them about sex, cause i bet you anything when they get done telling you the outcome and responsibilities of sex.. u wont wanna be doing it for a LONG TIME! i did it. and im having a kid.
It's normal. Your hormones are raging. But you can control it! Don't act on your sexual impulses. Instead, try masturbating. While losing your virginity at thirteen may seem okay to you now, you'll regret it down the road, trust me!
personally i think you are too young. but if you do it with someone who is a virgin, and you really do love, and use protection, it is okay i guess.





good luck
If you do not want to lose your virginity! You are really young as well!





You can try masturbating, it may releave the feeling of wanting sex. You can do this in bed or shower/bath tub.
Don't do it you are too young. Don't become another person labeled as a whore. Think more of yourself than others do.
Learn to masturbate instead, it's a lot safer
I know what you mean I really want to have it to